Hi Nina, welcome to the site. I think we met briefly in chat already(?). You'll find a lot of varied backgrounds here but the one thing we all have in common is our love of all things female, and I'm sure you will be soon finding like minded souls to chat with.
Jump in and have fun!
Nikki
Hi Nina-
Welcome to TW, hon. I don't think your name sounds pretentious at all, in fact it's rather pretty. As Nikki said, there all sorts of diverse tastes here, the common element being that we are all exploring what it means to express our feminine sides. The exploration can be quite diverse, so I'm sure you'll find lots of friends here. TW is a great place for information, resources and support, I hope you like it and decide to stay.
Hugs...Joni Mari