August 14, 2009 6:37 PM BST
Ladies--
Your answers were overwhelming! Arigato, arigato, ARIGATOGOZAIMASU!!! (Many thanks!)
The following may be too much information. Tough. I have nothing to hide from you here.
The rest of the story:
As I thought over the original question--which was to use pink polish or
none at all--it occurred to me to throw in the clear-coat, which I have used on my fingernails for a number of years. I have been spotted with this as recently as two weeks ago, when I went home to take care of The Momma. In fact, clear makeup was my friend while I was working in Indiana. So I actually altered the question from its original form.
So why bother asking the question at all?
Well, for starters, input. (As we say out here...“duh.”) You are all sharp ladies, and I value your input. You gave me an awful lot to think over, and on more than just using nail polish.
The other half was a gage. Yes, I still have to be careful. Yes, I still need to watch what I do, and when I do it. No, I’m not all out to my family--except my one sis, who is married to her longtime girlfriend. My other sis has no children save a 26 year old stepson, who is not joining us. (We personally have no kids--just cats.) I believe in avoiding trouble.
I also believe in being true to myself. And part of that is acknowledging my womanhood, potential trouble or not. Every TS goes through this at some point or another; and I am to the point where I can only hide or disguise so much.
Consider this: I have very limited male clothing, most of which is dress clothing. In point of fact, the only male clothing I have for a trip like this are some aloha shirts, and one that I am taking is an aloha
blouse. Which is funny in a way, because it came from Daddy’s closet and was his size. It’s a blouse or ladies’ shirt, because it buttons opposite of all the other shirts from his closet. (See? I come by this honestly--he was an Avon Lady while The Momma was ill, and now I’m a Kelly Girl.) I live as a woman so much now that my family is used to seeing me as a mostly androgynous type, anyway. (And I suspect The Momma knows more than she lets on.) They know, for example, that I buy and wear women’s pants. (They fit me better than men’s pants do, especially in the legs and buns.)
In addition, I have been using an epilator for years, except on my forearms and nether regions. I think that’ll stand out too...no body hair. I’ll be in shorts most of the week; August in Hawai’i can be warm.
With all that in mind, I am going “back” to clear-coat on both sets of nails, doing the thatch job on my eyebrows, and will leave my wig, boob inserts, and makeup kit at home--save for some clear lipstick and clear mascara. (I have no choice in underwear or socks, though. All I have are panties; I haven’t had a set of men’s underwear in a number of years now. The same can be said for socks.) I had wanted to get some pictures fully dressed while there; but that's a chance I am now not willing to take, based on your answers. I’m also
still deciding on jewelry. (My family has seen a number of my sliders, though I will probably only wear shells all week....)
You all gave me much more to consider than you know. And again, I thank you for your input.
I’ll let you all know how it goes.
Luv ‘n hugs,
Mina