December 11, 2009 5:57 PM GMT
Hiya Jeri & Marsha, great posts, I really enjoyed reading both of them.
Upon reflection, thinking about my little rant here and the websites which cause me frustration, I should learn to accept that theres a lot of people out there who see nothing wrong with opressing those they dislike. I know I am very passionate about everyone having equal representation and I'm sure I will come across more iniquty in the future.
I grew up thinking the US was the land of the free and so on and so forth. Since realising that there is a huge struggle in the US where people are still fighting to have everyone included in the equality human rights bill, as highlighted by various previous threads here in TW. I'm not sure how that is progressing. And understanding that it is lawful for private entities to ban and exclude whoever they like, with such open discrimination, i can undertsand why a lot of people struggle to comprehend basic human rights. Tell me if my understanding is wrong, but I cant help feel an immense sense of disappointment with what I once considered an icon and beacon of freedom free from opression. Its more like, the land of freedom and oportunity for the select.
Obviously, I only know what I've seen, heard and been told, I'm not living it. The preconceptions that I have developed may be totally way out. I look forward to reading other points of view.
I do get very disappointed when I hear people complaining about immigrants. Apparently, they come over to steal our houses, steal our jobs and claim our benifits. Whats wrong about these humans, are they sub human or something? Should they not be treated as any human being should, equally? The only thing I would say is that for someone to receive benifits and services that are provided by and paid for by the taxpayers funds, they should at least be a contributor to that taxpayers fund. I'm sure the government arent stupid enough to allow anyone to claim benifits, have you tried claiming? lol
Anyway, thats enough for me at this time, I'm sure I'll find more stuff to blurb about lol. cya x
December 11, 2009 8:43 PM GMT
Penny, sometimes I have a hard time understanding whether or not you are being sarcastic or maybe it is just our somewhat different cultures and word usage. Yelling "Fire" in a crowded theater without cause is a crime and rightfully so. So can we say that is restricting someone's freedom of speech?
I agree most topics should be allowed to be discussed in the chatroom, and if someone doesn't like the particular topic they can excuse themselves and leave until a topic more to their liking comes up. Even I have been involved in conversations I felt were appropriate and found myself told to stop by a moderator. As I stated in my last post to this thread, there are guidelines for our chatroom and basically for the main room it is to keep the conversation clean and not make unsolicited advances to others without their permission.
And to think that equality has to mean freedom to do or say whatever is ridiculous. Should murderers and rapist be allowed to do what feels good for them? Obviously not, and that is why we have laws here in the U.S. and likewise in the UK. Laws can alternatively be call restrictions on freedom. That is why most developed societies have a method for creating new laws so as to avoid the dictator craziness. Many laws have loopholes that allow unwanted behavior to persist and that is where we find ourselves battling to remove the discrimination that currently exists. In the U.S. we have the freedom to gather and that is something many countries around the world do not have. That means we can gather to protest or gather to speak out about hatred, or gather in churches that meet our needs. Saying that is not equality is ridiculous. Basically you and I have an equal right to setup our own chatroom with our own rules. That is equality.
Lots of hugs,
Marsha
December 12, 2009 1:59 AM GMT
Penny
In general terms the freedoms and laws we have in the US are the same as you have in the UK. After all our laws were originally derived from British common law, of course over a couple of centuries they have evolved and in some instances may be somewhat different than yours. But like driving on the other side of the highway it may seem odd but in the grand scheme of things it really isn’t that different, and you could get used to it. We aren’t perfect – individually or as a whole – but I think we're pretty nice.
Jeri
December 12, 2009 3:54 PM GMT
Hiya,
Good responses, i did enjoy reading. I'm sure you guessed I am stiring the mud a little to generate debate lol.
I'm sure most sensible people respect others views and facilitate good hearty debate. It just came to my attention that there seems to be quite a number of websites which only allow one point of view to be voiced and I thought a discussion on various aspects and understanding of human rights and freedom of speech would be nice.
Moderators perform a valuable role in ensuring that people who break the law or incite to break the law are removed, It just seems to me that some moderators seem to think that they can remove anyone they like, hence my "dictator" view on such individuals and my irony bit.
now diversing the discussion a bit...
Someone once said that isnt the black policemans assossiation illegal because it is discriminative, and my response to that is I think you will find that you dont have to be black to join and you also dont have to be a policeman either because if it was the case that only black police people were allowed to join then it would be an unethical and illegal organisation, or should be. I dont know the actual truth though, maybe someone does.
I refused to join the freemasons because in my opinion it is an illegal organisation because I found their philosophy unethical and I didnt want to allign myself with such people who thought it was ok to do so.
The Womens Institute and Working Mens Club shouldnt refuse any application on the basis of sexual discrimination either. It is my understanding that people join organisations because they are interested to join and will add to the organisation instead of trying to cause disruption, which of course would lead to expulsion.
I think thats enough for now lol. I look forward to reading responses.
Love
Penny
December 17, 2009 5:05 AM GMT
No responses damit! lol, I feel as if Im all soggy and wet and Ive been left out to dry in the sun!
we havnt had any resident nutters recently.
I'll think of somin! lol
December 30, 2009 11:38 AM GMT
Poor Penny... disappointed by the lack of responses.. perhaps little me should get this going again.
Actually I'm going to use this thread to raise the matter of an experience I had in the chat room yesterday - Not exactly 'hijacking the thread because it is on-topic. I was thinking of starting my own but ,hey, this is an appropriate place for my comments.
What happened was this. One of the room regulars came into the room and apropos of nothing (the rest of us were discussing the weather) put forward a view I disagreed with very strongly indeed. Its appropriate that I leave the person unnamed but I need the repeat what was said for my posting to make sense.
First, s/he said the recent attempt to bring down a plane over America was due to UK membership of the EU. I pointed out the lack of connection since the man responsible is a Nigerian. S/he told me Nigeria is in the EU. (Ok, I don't really need to debate this, just suggest we all get our atlases down of the shelf). S/he then said that you can only be British if you are white.
I left the room. I did this because I was in the mood for a light hearted chat, not to have a 'debate' on this matter. I did first say that I'm surprised that in a room set up for a minority (the transgendered) we get views against another minority (British people of different ethinic group). Actually, I not that surprised - there are plenty examples of prejudice within minority groups - but i'm still alarmed it exists here.
However this thread isn't really about the view itself - but about censorship. Was guilty of censorship by just upping and leaving at that point? If so, it is the one form of censorship allowed to me. I just didn't feel like engaging at that point.
I am generally of the view that if an opinion is out there is should be heard in public. Firstly so it can be argued against (if necessary) and secondly so people hold these views don't feel their own rights havn't been infringed. For example I was in favour of N. Griffin appearing on Question Time recently (For those of you not in UK, the leader of our far right part appeared on the BBC's flagship political debate show)
The question, is a support and general entertainment chat room the most approrpiate place? I really don't know. Conversations anywhere can be quite stilted if there are forbidden directions for it. On the other hand, this room needs to be open to people of all ethnic groups.
December 30, 2009 12:07 PM GMT
Pip, I look at it like this is a TV or Radio station. I have my favorite stations to watch or listen to, however there are times when they have something on that I just don't like. So I go do something else and come back later. Just because someone should have a right to express their opinion doesn't mean anyone has to be there to hear it. Censorship is more about not letting others see or hear the words. As for what had been said, I don't agree with it and it would not be my first topic of choice in our chat room, but it is a current event so I personally would not have an issue with someone bringing it up. I think sometimes in an effort to be more lady-like or something, some are too polite. Instead of you leaving, maybe if you said "Sorry but I'm not interested in discussing that here" then this person would have maybe changed their tone or left.
I don't hate anyone because of their particular views on a subject, but if it they have an opinion on a certain subject that I don't like, I just try to avoid the subject. Hopefully we can remain friends.
Hugs,
Marsha
December 10, 2009 3:14 PM GMT
I am all for freedom of speech but.................at what point does it become harmful? Away from TW, (so no, I'm not comparing the two issues), here is an example, in my opinion, of why even 'free' speech still needs regularing.
'Hamza, aka the hook, 48, is serving a seven-year jail term at Belmarsh high security prison for soliciting murder and inciting racial hatred
"Killing of the kafir (non-believer) for any reason you can say it is OK, even if there is no reason for it." He called on his followers to poison, ambush and kill non-believers and added: "You must have a stand with your heart, with your tongue, with your money, with your hand, with your sword, with your Kalashnikov. Don't ask shall I do this, just do it."
Of licensors for alcohol sellers he said: "Make sure that the person who gave him the licence for that wine shop doesn't exist any more on the Earth. Finish him up. Give him dawa (inviting non-Muslims to accept the truth of Islam). If he doesn't respect dawa, kill him."
Yes, this person has had his 'right to free speech' taken away, I personally can't see a problem with that. It's one thing to say these things in private, it's another to preach them in public and incite (at the very least) bad feeling and civil unrest.
Nikki
December 10, 2009 4:59 PM GMT
In the chatroom Lillianne Lee is head moderator. If you think one is to heavy handed contact her.
December 10, 2009 6:45 PM GMT
A chat hostess should be reactive.
It is not her position or remit to judge content, but to be aware of the way in which it is presented. To remain calm and not react to provocation.
If, for instance, a lot of swearing is involved, this is generally unacceptable, and the user should be taken aside and politely asked to moderate their language.
If a concept that is generally unacceptable to most cultures or societies is introduced, it should be discouraged. And so on.
The question of whether or not suspending or banning a chatter conflicts with their right to free speech ought to provoke a lively discussion, and as such should be encouraged. In TW we have often have long discussions about some extremely controversial subjects, sometimes with someone taking a position contrary to their own beliefs - it's called a debate!
I would only step in if things became acrimonious or reached a point where things got too heated and personal. Then it would be my job as a hostess to attempt to defuse the situation. Privately. Only if the perpetrator(s) declines to follow advice would I consider a time-out by 'kicking' them from the room. This is only a temporary action, and they can rejoin shortly afterwards, hopefully having had time to cool off.
If all else fails, then it can be referred. As yet, over a period of some years, I have never reached the point where I have had to seriously use the 'boot button'.
Penny, perhaps when the right people are chatting you ought to bring it up again and we'll see what the TW girls (who are, of course, a cut above average) make of it.
December 10, 2009 10:30 PM GMT
There's a first time for everythin penny.....NOW who you been upsetting.....lol
Lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Anna-Marie
December 10, 2009 11:32 PM GMT
This thread is now suspended.
Naaah just kidding.
xx
December 11, 2009 5:17 PM GMT
I am not aware of any current situation concerning moderators as I cannot access TW at home for the moment, hence I am not around as much as I would like.
As a moderator, however, I will say this - all too often people enter the chatroom after having had a bit too much to drink. Need I say more? Just last week the museum held its Christmas party. At the after-party, one of the supervisors - who was quite well-oiled at that point - became very abusive and it took three of us to haul him out. I'm suprised I didn't reinjure myself during that episode. Sometimes when people come in to the chatroom filled with liquid courage we do need to be on watch. More than once there was a fight brought about by someone who needed to go sleep it off.
December 12, 2009 2:25 PM GMT
What have I been missing, another controversial thread, lol. At least with TW, debates might get heated and sometimes there is the odd flying bag, but generally everyone has equall rights to reply and all are considered, before being derisively dismissed
(joking)
Talking of Chat room etiquete. if you want to insult somone make sure they don't understand what your saying, lol
Crissie ( back) xxxxxXXxx
December 30, 2009 3:46 PM GMT
Yes evan a closed minded Archie Bunker wannabe has the right to be heard. But it has been desided long long ago that they can not force anyone to listen.
But sometimes I will let them go on I find stupidity at that depth funny.