December 19, 2009 11:32 AM GMT
I've read & re-read Marsha's post. She never said that.
December 19, 2009 3:06 PM GMT
Well, I was going to stay out of this one since I felt I had nothing meaningful to contribute as I'm very happily married (my wife assures me of this) and we celebrated our 24th anniversary just last month. I am blessed in having a loving, supportive and understanding spouse.
Being TG is difficult enough in and of itself, finding someone who will love us for who we are is so hard. Even for those who conform to their birth sex and gender role finding real love is a struggle, but I truly believe, despite my deeprooted cynicism, that there is someone out there for all of us. Honesty about who you are, respect for yourself and a positive attitude go a long way toward finding that person, whether you're TG or not.
As far as Marsha's post, Sudha, I have read all the posts in this thread as well as others (trying to catch up) and no where did I read anything that stated or even implied that Marsha felt her point of view was the only correct one, in fact you are the one who seems to constantly repeat that your point of view is totally correct. We understand that your take on things is correct for you and how you feel about particular circumstances, more less a given of the human condition, though most people are able to at least temporarily entertain and consider someone else's take on things.
As I pointed out previously, we are here to help and support one another, not to start arguments or pick fights or try to antagonize one another for no particular reason. Sudha, I suggest a bit less antagonism and willingness to take offense and instead more openness to other's viewpoints, especially when no offense was meant.
Hugs...Joni Mari
December 19, 2009 4:04 PM GMT
Miss Sudah.
Im with Joni on this one, you start threads, in the vein of what do you think, ask questions, when somone does not agree with you or has an original thought of their own, you seem to take offence, you seem to think everyone is out of step except yourself.
I seem to remember you joining this site as a nieve if somwhat determined wannabe, seeking advice, comments and help. I resented your comments about there are no ladies here, perhaps I am not everyones perception of the ipitomy of demure and sophistication. but I value other peoples take on life and give their comment due consideration.
Cristine
December 21, 2009 12:47 AM GMT
Like HELL you are, penny!
lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Anna-Marie
December 21, 2009 8:03 AM GMT
@ miss sudha: I think you will find Cassandra's comment was not actually meant for you.
@ Penny Whatever-the hell-your-name-is-this-week: Your claims to sophistication would be more credible if your spelling was not so bad... Then again, maybe not even then, though you could claim a place on the royal pain throne! LOL
December 21, 2009 1:09 PM GMT
I don't wish to "have a go" Sudha, but:
"...it strengthens my comment on beliefs and opinions that all the people think that their idea is the best..."
Followed immediately by:
"...but i believe that all my statements are correct".
You seem to be criticising others for doing exactly what you are doing. Believe what you want to, but try to avoid believing that you are always right about everything!
People here are just stating their opinion, there is no need to be so confrontational when that opinion differs from yours.
I suppose this post means I am not ladylike...
I am a woman though.
Love, Lucy
xx