I also believe in the end it is the TS's decision which way to proceed. I think it is wise to listen to doctors, family and friends before making a decision, but in the end, the TS needs to be comfortable with whatever she chooses.
Marsha said:-
I also believe in the end it is the TS's decision which way to proceed. I think it is wise to listen to doctors, family and friends before making a decision, but in the end, the TS needs to be comfortable with whatever she chooses.
Anna said:-
Marsha, SRS isn't the be all and end all of matters.
I think thats what is called concurring. allbeit said differently. theres too many wanting what they don't realy realise the enormalities and implications involved. Why opinions have to get so personal beggars belief, because thats all they are, individuals giving their own view on a subject.. why words like venom and hate have to be brought into a healthy debate beggars belief..
You could'nt find anyone more feminine in her approach to life or as sophisticated as my Cass and she has no desire at the moment to opt for SRS, she is content as she is, perhaps that will change, but it won't make any difference to me. what is right for one might not be right for someone else, does'nt make for anyone being less worthwhile or less a person.
I haven't read all the posts yet, but this is a very interesting thread...
Is there really such thing as a true gentlemen who might truly like a girl like me? One who would be patient, caring, and understanding?
p.s. I stumbled across this old thread, hope it's okay to have revived it...
Madeleine and Suzy-
I am really glad that you revived this important topic. The thread got way off target to another important topic so I am glad it is back again.
I have had many years to think about this question, and I have come to the conclusion that life is simply a rainbow. You can articulate the various vermetations and combinations yourselves. I think that the reason that some men prefer TG, crossdressing girls, is that this is the spectrum of the rainbow which their psyche has decided is most pleasing to them. Nothing perverted, but just a consequence of their thoughts given to the subject and their own natural passions. All perfectly healthy and grand. Unfortunately, I cannot speak from experience, but I fantisize about being intimate with a lean handsome guy ----as well as a TG, crossdresser. As a matter of fact, it is my observation that MOST of the conversations on TG sites where sexual relations are discussed revolve around two TG "girls" becoming intimate. This is just another sector of the rainbow. Diversity is a beautiful concept, and I believe we should all just let nature take its course and enjoy living.
One aspect that my psyche does not understand is that, apparently, there are MANY people in the GS who are TG people who want to be as feminine as possible, but wish to have no sexual interactions with either men or TG people. Viewing that sector of the rainbow from my part of it does not seem logical, but I praise their resolve to be who they want to be.
Jacqueline
Suzy you are correct most members of that site only want TG partners. Also most of them only want one thing and that is sex. Most of them are gay or bisexual and there is nothing wrong in that but , most of them are in denial. They say they only like females then follow that "With a little bit extra" In other words they are intrested in what is between the legs not the person or personality.
TvChix is just a pick up joint for sexual head cases in my opinion , but that is just my opinion. It does nothing to help Transgenders it does the opposite! It gives us a bad reputation and makes us look like a load of sex crazed loonies not normal human beings.
I recently closed my account there because I was blocking about 10 members a day. So why was I there? Well not looking for sex or a partner , in the unlikely event that I do find a partner it will be face to face in my day to day life.
I was there for one reason only and you can do a search for it on there @Suffolk_Police
It was me who got that police presence on that website because of my concerns about some members. The police did not have the resources to police it when the cut backs came so I policed it for them hence my presence there. It drained my brain to be honest but I done my duty and had success in having some people looked into and removed from the site and that included a police officer who was reprimanded for his behaviour. Gives me the creeps thinking about some of the messages I had on there.
Everyone on that website should be very aware that there are some very strange people in this world.
You all take care.
Julia.
I think I should add that getting that Police presence there on TvChix was not hard work. Every police force has a diversity officer so , if you are a member of that site and want to make a difference then contact them. Having a local Police presence could make a big difference to others safety on that website. So just contact them with your concerns then they can be there for you too. I think there is only one other force on there and that is Tyne side as far as I can remember.
Again please take care .
Seeing this can make a difference . Julia
Cristine, Shye (GS Admin) said:
Marsha said:-
I also believe in the end it is the TS's decision which way to proceed. I think it is wise to listen to doctors, family and friends before making a decision, but in the end, the TS needs to be comfortable with whatever she chooses.
Anna said:-
Marsha, SRS isn't the be all and end all of matters.
I think thats what is called concurring. allbeit said differently. theres too many wanting what they don't realy realise the enormalities and implications involved. Why opinions have to get so personal beggars belief, because thats all they are, individuals giving their own view on a subject.. why words like venom and hate have to be brought into a healthy debate beggars belief..
You could'nt find anyone more feminine in her approach to life or as sophisticated as my Cass and she has no desire at the moment to opt for SRS, she is content as she is, perhaps that will change, but it won't make any difference to me. what is right for one might not be right for somone else, does'nt make for anyone being less worthwhile or less a person.
Some people especially the men don't like the word admirer, don't confuse the genuine admirer from the deluded closet gay or the common tranny shagger, There are a few real genuine admirers real gentlemen, lovely personalities, great sense of humour and realy care on here, the thing is not to confuse this site with the other meat markets. I admire the admirers we get on here.
I admire open ness & honesty, there are some people here who I would be proud to address as friends or even honorary 'sisters' & those are a few of the people who have my admiration
That is my little brother, Matt. Isn't he just so nice?
Here's a question.....
Where did all the guys go??????
I know I haven't been on here regularly but they seem to be non-existant these days. What happened?
I don't know Nikki to be honest, at times work takes over for me & then there are personal challenges that crop up but just like some of the girls the guys seem to be here for a while and then move on. Sad but true by the looks of it....
It's true Matt, people do come and go and I am in that category. I used to be very active here but now just pop my head in the door now and then, but it does seem rather empty without some people like yourself too. It's nice to have a variety of different people here and I feel that, at the moment, we are sadly lacking in men!
Let's hope some of them make their way back here, I'm sure I am not the only one that would like to see them.
Hello, my friends. My name is Travis, I'm 45 and divorced with no children and I live in southern Michigan. I'm also transoriented. I happen to be attracted to trans women, those who were born male but now identify as female. I lived my life as a bisexual man for many years and gained wonderful experiences from relationships with each binary gender. But, more recently, I'm looking deeper into my desire to somehow find someone who has "the best of both worlds." And, no, I do not mean that in a physical or sexual way. My motto is: I choose who to be with based upon personality, not "plumbing."
What I'm searching for in a woman is strength and devotion to the relationship but also the fortitude to stand up to me should I make the inevitable mistake. A woman who will stand beside me and, when I need it, will move behind me to deliver a swift kick to the behind. Well, in short, folks - I'm looking for a partner.
It has been a while since I was in any type of relationship with another person. And, like so many others, it didn't end well. But I'm not going to give up. There's a woman out there for me.
I'm disgusted, by the way, with the treatment of the LGBT community. I wish there were something I could do to produce change and raise awareness for the problems that affect you and those who love and support you.