Keef,
Miss Right will probably "land in your lap" when you least expect it. But alas, there is the sea between us..
"But the sea is wide and I cannot swim over
And neither have I the wings to fly
If I could find me a handsome boatman
To ferry me over my love and I"
Regarding being married to a career, I spent my life in Scientific High -Tech, so I know all about being a "work-a-holic"
Considering the "previous lives" of many of us on this site...you might find a girl like us to be a "Match Made in Heaven"
Hugs, and good luck
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"and my needs entwined, like ribbons of light...and I came through the doorway, some where... in the night"
<p>Doanna Highland</p>