April 23, 2003 5:14 AM BST
We don't want to see you get hurt, Laura. The only concept we have of your SO is the one you've painted for us, so we can't really know her as you do. It's possible for individuals to change (we're talking core personalities here), but it's very rare, in my experience.
As the others have said, be careful.
Question: are you still in love with her?
Another one: if not, are you afraid to be without her?
One more: if you are still in love with her, do you think she's in love with you?
O.K., last one: you said she gave you money for food, so does that mean she's always been in control of your finances? I know you mentioned changing the bank account, but I just wondered exactly what you meant. If she's keeping you from eating, that's pretty low.
April 30, 2003 3:58 AM BST
Either way, I just hope you do what's best for yourself.