My girlfriend is very supportive. I told her right off when we first met that i liked to dress as a girl. I think the confidence
and complete lack of shame was a big turn on for her. The secret is to be honest and help them understand it is just who u are and the way you were born. Don't act ashamed about it.Act confident and proud and girls will melt. If she has concerns about your sexuality then show her evidence that proves most crossdressers are heterosexual or at least bisexual. Find her some good books to read and make her visit some tranny websites.
Daniella

At least many lesbian women like ts-women. On saturday I had a tea and visited internet in a gay-lesbian cafeteria. And a lesbian girl at the next table just coudn´t keep her eyes away from me.

Laura

Good post. I've had girlfriends who like trannies, but they are very difficult (for me) to find. If you have a supportive girlfriend or spouse, don't let her go!