March 5, 2009 1:00 AM GMT
March 5, 2009 12:09 PM GMT
Sammi xxXxx. are your feelings fake? I DON'T THINKS SO, Never met you, but chatting, you sound as real as they come, we all love you, Please don't leave us in TW, place would be gloomy without you. xxxxxxxXXXXxxxxxxxx
March 6, 2009 9:40 AM GMT
Sammi. Sensitivity has never been a crime, and courageous acts are not defined by scale but by significance. It took far more courage to explain your situation than to maintain an illusion. Big weight removed I guess..
Those here who know you well will continue with the more emotive 'don't go's'. Can I just suggest that you're being a silly moo?
Rachel
March 6, 2009 2:07 PM GMT
Sammi, sorry I have only just seen this to respond to but stop worrying about things and forget it. I have met you and you are who you are, and I have no problem with who you are. So you want to be more than you are, you aren't alone there and you know it. Your friends, and that includes me, don't care if you are a p/t tranny who only dresses at home or if you are a post op girl, it YOU we are friends with, regardless.
You have my email if you want to get in touch and talk about it. I'll support you in any way I can.
Now just be yourself, we won't think any less of you.
Nikki x
March 6, 2009 3:06 PM GMT
Dear Sammi-
Even though I don't know you very well at all, I hope you won't mind my chiming in. Hon, there are far worse sins committed every day than a little bit of exaggeration about ourselves. Voluntarily coming clean shows what sort of person you are and what sort of character you have. To me it shows honesty, caring, and sensitivity to the feelings of others, how could you be a more fulltime woman than that? How you dress and how often is only facade, what counts is if you are a girl inside. Where it matters. We all make mistakes and sometimes choose and even persist in behavior that is not good for us, the ability to change and make amends is what counts.
Please don't leave, Sammi. TW needs people like you. This is all a journey of self discovery and finding the right path, to me it sounds like you are on it. I so hope you will stay and continue to be a part of the community.
Hugs...Joni Marie
March 7, 2009 6:33 AM GMT
Sammi,
I've lied to others, and myself, about what I am all my life until 5 years ago. WILL ANYONE IN THE TG FAMILY WHO HAS NEVER LIED, ACTIVELY OR PASSIVELY ABOUT BEING TG, PLEASE STAND UP. YAH, THAT'S WHAT I THOUGHT. Sammi, it looks like you have plenty of company. Forgive yourself., it's the one thing we can ALL understand.
March 7, 2009 4:36 PM GMT
Joni stands up.
March 7, 2009 6:31 PM GMT
I have to agree that most of us have claimed to be more or less than we realy are to others.
But do we do the same to ourselfs.
How many TS's have familys or friends & so lie to themselfs that they are only CD's when in thier harts they realy want or need more.
Sammi were you lying to us or were you voicing what you realy want?
March 8, 2009 9:19 PM GMT
Sammi.
You are one of the nicest people I have met.
So, you may have bent the truth a little bit. You're not the first, and I doubt you'll be the last.
Get your ass back here at once!
Sue. XXX