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men who date transsexuals are not gay.

  • sometimes, the different labels people use are less about objective differences and more about the nature of their outlook and epistemology. A pragmatist verses an idealist  may self label in different ways while essentially being very similar 

    Let people self identify as they wish, but don't assume that they are obliged to use words the same as you. You have to talk to them to understand them

    This post was edited by Becky DQ at December 4, 2016 1:21 PM GMT
      December 4, 2016 1:20 PM GMT
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    Hi Maggie,

    it was a response to the previous post which unfortunatly would seem to have many issues which I felt needed the response it had. I could choose to just hide the post but then would have to give concise reasons for this.

    Not to borrow the strength of another, nor to rely on one's own strength; to cut off past and future thoughts, and not to live within the everyday mind... then the Great Way is right before your eyes. - Yamamoto Tsunetomo
      November 19, 2015 9:42 PM GMT
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  • Hey Matt

    Since I have often thought that admirers are not really gay (I am the one that would like to be entered if I was in that kind of relationship) I am interested in what you mean and who's statement you are questioning?

     

      November 19, 2015 4:01 AM GMT
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    Ok.....

    There are a few issues with your statement;

     

    1. This thread has been dormant for over 3 years so this is considered Threadomancy

    2. Your statement does not add anything to the thread

    3. This section of the forums are aimed at TG Admirers

    4. I have my suspicians about trolling & spam...

    Not to borrow the strength of another, nor to rely on one's own strength; to cut off past and future thoughts, and not to live within the everyday mind... then the Great Way is right before your eyes. - Yamamoto Tsunetomo
      September 10, 2015 10:23 PM BST
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  • It is evident that society is becoming more and more aware of the exciting Crossdressing/transgender scene. Indeed even in the media, even some celebrities have "confessed" to enjoying the odd womans clothing.

    So girls, get dressed and enjoy it!crossdress

    This post was edited by Natashe Franco at September 7, 2015 11:12 AM BST
      September 4, 2015 10:22 AM BST
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  • iam a guy and when i had a date with my TG friend he wants me to ....... suggest me what i do .........or not
      February 24, 2012 11:26 AM GMT
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  • My guy would want me to have a penis. But I don't have. Sometimes I think that you shouldn't have it cut off. Now, tell me, for the sake of his beloved, some of you would save the penis? It is possible transsexuals sufficient castration?
      January 8, 2012 9:02 AM GMT
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  • i ncouldnt find it  so i gues i will miss out on it,

    From the world of smoke amd mirrors!
      November 12, 2011 2:48 PM GMT
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  • These were some GREAT posts. Thank you all for your inputs to this forum. I was having a bit of an identity crisis but now I understand much more who I am. I am not attracted to the genitalia but the personality. TS/TG's are so much more "real" as far as their attitudes and thought processes. That's where the attraction lies for me, not whether they have a willy and breasts or not.

      November 8, 2011 8:59 PM GMT
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  • 734
    [Rae whistles in an attempt at faux innocence. Hindered somewhat by an inability to either whistle or be innocent ...]
    www.raekelcou.com
      February 25, 2011 12:48 AM GMT
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  • Moi???
      February 25, 2011 12:18 AM GMT
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    Is that an offer?
    www.raekelcou.com
      February 6, 2011 8:02 PM GMT
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  • ...and mine
      February 5, 2011 10:07 PM GMT
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    Haha! Good point Penny. Could be why my queue remains empty ... xx
    www.raekelcou.com
      January 22, 2011 11:50 PM GMT
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  • An orderly queue? I think that just being a little too choosey!! lol :)

    My sophistication shines through once again...
    Just an ordinary girl finding her way in this strange life. - What will it take to get everyone to realise that everyone else is also a human being that deserves just as much respect? - How does someone tell their doctor they have hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia? - When I was a student I specialised in Alcopology. It always starts with Alco and always ends with pology. - Waiter! There's a hare in my rabbit pie!
      January 22, 2011 3:34 PM GMT
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    I see myself very much as a straight female. Whilst I have absolutely no problem with people being gay, I simply have no interest in gay men / clubs / scene etc. So, straight men only for me. Please form an orderly queue ...
    www.raekelcou.com
      January 19, 2011 6:47 PM GMT
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  • Penny, thank you for your reply. I take your point about the assumptions some people make and act upon when they encounter a transgendered woman, which as you say amounts to disrespect.
      January 19, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
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  • Rachael, I agree with the sentence that men who date transsexual women are not gay. However, I do have a very big problem with a lot of men who chat me up and are gay, which contradicts your postulation that gay men are not interested in transsexual women. I can only put it down to the men who chat me up as being ignorant regarding my plight of being a transgendered woman. I am regularly chatted up by men who ask what my male name is and they expect to be entertained by a gay experience such as sucking my c0ck. It’s quite frustrating and I usually answer these questions and proposals with a very big sigh. I try my best to respect everyone but I find it most difficult to respect people to fail to respect me.

    It must be very difficult for genuine admirers who date transsexual women considering the prolific sexual abuse given to us by generally ignorant people.

    Love
    Penny
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    Just an ordinary girl finding her way in this strange life. - What will it take to get everyone to realise that everyone else is also a human being that deserves just as much respect? - How does someone tell their doctor they have hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia? - When I was a student I specialised in Alcopology. It always starts with Alco and always ends with pology. - Waiter! There's a hare in my rabbit pie!
      January 18, 2011 11:07 AM GMT
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  • My experience convinces me that gay men are not, as a rule, remotely attracted to transgendered women. Ipso facto, this indicates that men who are attracted to transgendered women are not gay in the commonly understood sense of the word.
      January 18, 2011 6:51 AM GMT
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  • I chuckle to myself because I have a number of male friends who say they will break in my new virgina for me, as if they are doing me a favour! lol
    Just an ordinary girl finding her way in this strange life. - What will it take to get everyone to realise that everyone else is also a human being that deserves just as much respect? - How does someone tell their doctor they have hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia? - When I was a student I specialised in Alcopology. It always starts with Alco and always ends with pology. - Waiter! There's a hare in my rabbit pie!
      January 17, 2011 5:38 PM GMT
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    Ok, Can we keep this on topic please people

    Thank you please.......
    Not to borrow the strength of another, nor to rely on one's own strength; to cut off past and future thoughts, and not to live within the everyday mind... then the Great Way is right before your eyes. - Yamamoto Tsunetomo
      January 16, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
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  • Hi Cristine,

    To put it a bit more simply:

    All TS are TG, but not all TG are TS.

    Best,
    Mellie
    <p><span style="color: #800080;">Girls will be boys and boys will be girls It's a mixed up muddled up shook up world except for Lola Lo-lo-lo-lo Lola</span> - Ray Davies, The Kinks</p> <p><span style="color: #3366ff;">(S)he's a walking contradiction, partly truth and partly fiction</span> - Kris Kristofferson</p>
      January 16, 2011 10:50 PM GMT
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  • Rose whats with the TG and TS, bit.

    Transgender
    A person who's gender identity or gender expression does not match their anatomy or conform to social and cultural expectations. Transgender or "trans" is an umbrella term inclusive of all gender non-conforming children, youth and adults. The opposite of cisgender.

    transsexual
    A person who's distress over the incongruence between their gender identity and physical anatomy is strong enough to lead them to seek hormonal and/or physical changes to their body in order to bring their gender identity and anatomy into alignment.

    An extract from the Synopsis of the Etiology of Gender

    rofessor Louis Gooren, MD, PhD. (The Netherlands)
    Professor Richard Green, MD, JD, FRCPsych. (UK)
    Dr Lynne Jones, MP, PhD. (UK)
    Dr Frank Kruijver, MD. (The Netherlands)*
    Dr Joyce Martin, MRCGP, MB, ChB, D.Obst.RCOG. (UK)*
    Dr Zoe-Jane Playdon, BA(Hons), PGCE, MA, MEd, PhD, DBA, FRSA. (UK)*
    Mr David Ralph, MBBS, BSc, FRCS, MS. (UK)
    Mrs Terry Reed, JP, BA(Hons), MCSP, SRP, Grad Dip Phys. (UK)*
    Dr Russell Reid, MB, ChB, FRCPsych. (UK)*
    Professor William Reiner, MD. (USA)
    Mr M. Royle, MBBS, FRCS (Urol) (UK)
    Professor Dick Swaab , MD, PhD. (The Netherlands)
    Mr Timothy Terry, BSc, MB, BS, LRCP, FRCS (Urol), MS (UK)
    Mr Philip Thomas MBBS, FRCS (Urol). (UK)
    Professor James Walker, MD, FRCP, FRCOG. (UK)
    Dr Philip Wilson, DPhil MRCP MRCPCH FRCGP. (UK)
    Dr Kevan Wylie, MB, MmedSc, MD, FRCPsych, DSM. (UK)

    The fact that transexual is missused and thought of to denote a porn star is wrong.





    Cristine Jennifer Shye.  B/L.  B/Acc
      January 16, 2011 10:24 PM GMT
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  • Tina was female upstairs but male downstairs when I met her. Still haven'y lost interest in her. As for being gay, I wasn't interested in what was between her legs.

      January 16, 2011 9:42 PM GMT
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  • Hi, this is my view only so please don't flame me as I don't mean the following in an offensive way/manner.

    As a male who finds pre/post op heading towards full gender reassignment attractive I don't consider myself gay as I consider the person to be female.
      December 27, 2010 9:14 AM GMT
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