I started like most girls here collecting fem stuff when i was about 15 . I wore some of the stuff i had but i would do it mostly at night in my room since i lived at home with my brother and my mother . As i got older and my colletion grew i started to have doubts about the reall reasion why i was dressing . So with that said I "purged " at the age of 22 . When I started college i was getting those urges to dress again so i started to do as befor and collect stuff . A few years later i started to keep my collection in my night table it was a 2 drawer office filing cabnet . one night after beeing away all day my mom asked about what she had found in my night table . At the time I was 28 and I was totaly scared to tell anyone about just what i had been doing all this years . So one night after coming home from classes I came up with the idea of writing my mom a letter. At that time I wanted to explain to her that I was not doing anthing "bad". I told her all about the fem stuff she seen and stuff she knew nothing about that i had hid . I wanted to all so make it clear to her that i was not some freak or a sexual pervert . I told her that i was not "gay" and i would not do anything to cause her greef. I told her that from time to time i like to "play dress up " and that i did it at home at night and at other places alone . I had held on to that letter for a few years cause i felt there was a proper time and place for sush things . That time came cause i was getting to the point i did nt want to hide karen nomore . So one day i got up early in the morning preparing for a out of town day trip and i placed the "letter" on the kitchen table . when i returned later that evening , mom came to me and said she read the letter and that she was not mad all she asked was "time " to deal with it . So I gave her all summer to do that and in the fall she came to me one day and said . IF I chose to dress this way she would not stop me or if i wanted to go out "en fem " it was my call . Shortly after i came out to her my only brother said "he " was cool with me dressing and would support me .
Wow hun. THis is impressive I wish I had this kind of support but alais I don't
You are a beautiful person and your mom and brother recognize how beautiful you are.
WOW I love the letter idea. My family know my secret, including my kids, but if I ever need to give advice about coming out this will be the number one suggestion. Cheers....