alright so I joined for advice on how to please transexuals and crossdressers more sexually I can last for 2 hrs without cumming and I really want to make it an experience for both of us if there is anything that anyone can help me with please let me know

Nu dat is een erg vreemde eerste post . Ik hoop dat ze beter.

This post was edited by Former Member at November 24, 2012 6:22 PM GMT

Sorry dat zuo hebben toegevoedgd veel van ons het woord tranny offensief!.
Hoe dan ook als je kunt gaan voor 2 uur hoe lang was je denkt te gaan? heb je stoppen voor de lunch?.

Cristine.
Se ele pode durar duas horas , mue nome e Paris Hilton.
Julia x x.

after I found a translation online to what you both said julia no help at all and cristine thanks i am proud that i can last that long however i just want to make it better on both sides

Joshua.
That is cheating!
I think Cristine and myself find it a bit hard to believe .
Last time a man walked into my house he done it in his pants before I had put the kettle on.
The one before him done it on my carpet when I left the room for a few minutes.

Maybe you are one in a million but from my experience.
vgtk muzxc dtg gratgypygrt git .
Have a nice day
Julia .

Joshua. I forgot to say what happened to the man who done it on my carpet. I showed him my door! I did not stop to ask him if he liked my door but I showed it to him anyway.

 I can't figure men out to be honest. I play with them like toys and when I get bored I throw them away like old toys.

 Now don't get me wrong in the sense of playing with them "I mean mind games" I do it for fun "No sexual contact".

 I will tell you the main reason why. I have yet to meet a man in real life or online who will admit he is gay or bi . Being pre-op I could have a different man everyday of my life if I wished "But" once a transexual goe's post-op the attraction goe's and I know that because I have known beautiful post-ops who cannot find a decent man (or even half decent) .

 

 A few years ago I had a man doing my head in wanting to meet me and offering me the world (like I need it) Then one day out of the blue he contacted me saying , This is your last chance because if you have your op i won't want to know you. Of course my whole world fell apart! Actualy I peed myself laughing and sent him a reply telling him to go find himself a man. Strange but I never heard from him again.

 A few Christmas ,s ago I sent another man on a 200 mile round trip to meet me at a place I had never bloody heard of I found on a map. The reason I done it is because I knew he was married with 3 children and he wanted to spend Christmas eve with me "Not his wife and children" He was a bit pist with me for some reason best known to himself.

 

To sum it up! To this day I still cannot figure men out apart from one thing "Sex" Its on the brain. Good luck in your search but unless you find a real dim wit (there are some) you will be looking a long time and I suggest being honest may get you somewhere.

 

We have female brains and most of us use them.

It is easy to figure anyone out after an hour maybe two.

 Julia.

This post was edited by Former Member at November 24, 2012 11:41 PM GMT

I've heard quite a few "stories" from guys..LOL
- they all think they have 12" dongs
-any guy that says he can last for 2 hours is probably including the 1 hour and 58 minutes it takes him to "get it up"

Hi Donna. I love your response.

To be honest I found this a strange way to make an introduction on a website. If this was a website based on sex and dating I would have just ignored it.

The question Joshua posed asking how to please more? My answer if it was reality would be- - Can I have a break? .

After 2 hours I think I would need a cup of tea or coffee or some fresh air.

If the question was about fore play then sex and then wants it to last longer it may have sounded better but even then I think 2 hours is a bit to long plus I find it a bit hard to believe.
I will give Joshua one tiny piece of credit! He took the time to find the translations! Wether that lasted 2 hours I don't know but it is more believable than the sex part.

Take care .

Julia xxx.

Hi Chrissy.

There was nothing bitter intended.

I found it to be just a bit of fun as if I had not responded I don't think there would have been any response at-all. Me being me I just could not ignore it.

Sorry if I have been unnecessary but I can assure you I was not being offensive! It is my sense of humour . I could not take the post seriously.
As for Joshua! Well he can start again but maybe in a more suitable way.

Take care .

Julia x.

Julia, all I can say is "Find yourself a decent man". Two hours is not a long time if the guy is considerate of your needs as well as his.

Hi Carol.

Well I am 55 and hav'nt found one yet! Nice as friends? Yes. Anything else No , they don't exist!.
At this rate it will be the vicar and I will be in a wooden box with him saying "In the name of the father and of the son and into the hole she goe's".
Julia .

Cristine.
Eu realmente nau suo boa em portugues. Voce disse fidido!
Esta discussao uma loucura , mas eu tambem de 12 polegdas????
Abracos
Julia xx.

Joshua,

 

Ts, tv, man, woman, cis, trans, the basics of pleasing someone are all the same. Some prerequisites:  You must both want to have sex.  You must both be comfortable with each other.  "Attracted" would be nice, but each of you must at least not be repulsed or want to flee.  If these are not met for both of you, you will not please your partner no matter what.  You must drop your ego and think about your partner.  That means be attentive to their reactions to things you do and say.  People are pleased by different things.  It's your job to figure out what pleases your partner.  We can't tell you "talk dirty", "touch this spot" or "do this motion" because what works for one person doesn't always work for another.  Before sex, watch how your partner reacts to words and body language.  Try to figure out what arouses them.  Drop your preconceptions.  There may well be something about you that your partner finds highly arousing.  It's possible that it is not your penis.  During sex as well, pay attention to what touch they like, what body parts.  Watch for signs that something you are doing is too much, too sensitive, too painful.  Communication at this point is often non-verbal and can be hard to interpret.  A moan can mean "yes!" or it can mean "too much!"

 

Sorry if that was talking down to you and you've long since mastered all that.  If you have that foundation though, the most important thing to know about a MTF transsexual or crossdresser is that they aren't likely interested in playing the male role and that even if they agree to it, they don't likely do the male role well.  If you want a partner to play the male role, you'll have better luck with someone who doesn't mind playing the male role in daily life.  Most no-hormone, no-surgery MTF occassional crossdressers have serious misgivings about fulfilling the male role that society expects of them.  Transwomen who have taken hormones, had surgeries, or who live pubicly as a woman have made a strong statement they do not wish to be male.  MTFs of almost all kinds desire the female role.  In sex then, your first guess should be that you will please your partner best by thinking of them as a woman, and by treating them as a woman.

 

Too obvious?  Well, the porn industry pushes the idea of the beautiful woman that turns and plays the male role in bed.  Drop this preconception.  It happens, but it's rare.  Also drop any preconception you may have that your partner is "really" male, but "just" looks or acts female.  If you have this prejudice, you will fail.  It's fine to keep in mind your partner's male history, but it's usually not fine to talk about it.  During sex especially, your partner is likely to terminate your date abruptly.  Reality is though that your partner may well have some vestiges of their male body or mind.  Deal with it.  ignore what you can.  Make love to your woman.  Your partner will apreciate it, possibly more than you can imagine.  Finally, work with what you've got.  If the makeup and clothes come off but magic isn't really happening but your partner has this magnificent penis standing at attention, tell her how beautiful she was at dinner and then see if you can give her night a happy ending.

If a man wants to please a transgendered woman ...all he needs to do is treat her as a woman...but don't expect her to enjoy a "wham, bam, thank you mam!" and consider herself lucky - because we aren't desperate to have that kind of attention. Personally, I can "pick and choose" my partner... and I have high standards - like any woman should.

Sonia.

I will right click and target print your post and give a copy to any man who attempts to chat me up.
I think 100 copies should last at least a month. Nice post.

Anyone reading this post:

Please do not confuse my reference to Chrissy with Cristine.

Chrissy deleted her response "They are to different people".

Donna.

Nice response! We are talking about men here though!!!! If a man is 6ft tall then his brain is approx 3ft from the floor .

Julia.

oi Cristine. Muto verdade eu amo isso.

 

Como estamos indo internacional aqui e para os membros na Austraia.

This post was edited by Former Member at November 30, 2012 12:09 PM GMT