I have been cross dressing for almost 35 years and since I'm only 40 years old that's a hefty chunk of my life.

I was doing my cross dressing indoors, but only recently I decided to go out dressed as a woman. I love the thrill of it and people seeing me in a skirt from behind, when really i'm a guy.

I love heels, but if they're too high I can't walk in them. I also cannot wear standard court shoes outside as they keep coming off my feet. I discovered this to my horror the first time I ventured out. I had to make a quick return to my house.

I'm not a fan of boots, because I like a certain look, which is a black pencil skirt and a nice shoe. I looked around and found a court shoe that has extra upper which helps the shoes stay on my feet, so I'm happy with those.

ANYWAY, back to my thread title. I just wanna say I tried to join three forums this week. The first one the owner of the site sent me a message and said my profile had been deleted from  their database. Because 'we don't accept your type.' MEANING ME, WTF??? I wrote to them and asked what they meant but I never got a reply. To this very day I am clueless why I was banned and I hadn't even posted a thread or a single post. It was nothing to do with my email, or nothing.

Another forum, wouldn't accept me on their site either. Again no reason given.

Luckily The Gender Society has accepted me which I think is great. But has anyone else had any trouble trying to join other forums.

Thanks for reading this and bye for now.

Hi Kitty, Some sites re for transsexual people only and do not admit other transgender people (TV's, CD's etc). This is because of the particular problems that face those who are transitioning to living in the gender role of their choice and many discussions will revolve around cross hormone therapy and GRS/SRS which transsexual people have to go through. It was probably not a slight on you, just your position in the trans spectrum.

However, like other internet sites and discussion forums, we do have a strict policy that images depicting pornography or penises bulging out of scanty knickers etc etc will be taken down and that member risks being barred from the site.