Hi Steve.
This is a late reply but, hey, its only April.
Your wish to have large areolas and small breasts is a contradiction.
The areola expands as a result of an increase in the mass and foundation of the breast.
The greatest expansion occurs during pregancy.
Further, male to female transsexuals may experience an increase in the size of their breasts without a corresponding increase in the diameter of the areolas.
Nevertheless, there is a clinic in Sydney specialising in cosmetic tattoos who will also perform an areola tattoo to deepen the colour and the size. You may find something similar in NT, or alternatively fly down to Syd.
Good Luck
CB
''I want to get the biggest nipples and areolas I can but to have tiny breasts. I want to still live and work as a male''
. My considered opinion? keep to that regime and you won't be a man for much longer. You do understand it will affect your erectile function, your libido, and probably not just limit growth to your nipples,