August 26, 2004 11:01 AM BST
i'm glad to hear you feel that way,allisande.Like you,maria is a BIG part of my life and someone i'm proud of.I've been out dressed for ages,and i still get the same buzz as i did when i first went out "en femme".All my family now know about maria,and they all understand that she's here to stay.hope thigs go well for you and i hope you get lots of pleasure going public.Honey,there's no other feeling quite like it!
Love and xxxx maria
August 26, 2004 2:05 PM BST
Hi Allissande-
You should be who you feel yourself to be, at least that's what I think. If you feel you are really Allissande, then be her. Be her 24/7 if you can or if that's what you want. You don't "owe" anyone an explanation except perhaps those who are family or those who are already deeply a part of your life.
Having misgivings and worries is natural, in some ways, coming out is like adolescence all over again. Yuck! Except of course this time you have all your previous experiences (and TW!) to help you through it. Just have fun and be yourself and enjoy your female side.
Hugs, Joni
August 26, 2004 8:57 PM BST
Allisande,
My "twin-sister" Wendy has brought a lot to my life too. Can't possibly live without her now. Would be like amputating my arm from my body...maybe amputating my body from my arm! Enjoy what she brings to you, when she brings it. I just have to watch what restroom she has me walking into
Like Joni says "The FSL is murder."