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  • Ooops, I did it again

    Had a nasty scare this week.  It seemed like I was having another stroke.  Spent a day in ER/A&E being checked out.  Tests confirmed no NEW brain damage, but apparently it is not that uncommon to have a return of problems even months later.  Last week I walked a mile and a half o...
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  • When Less is More

    Well, my stroke was not as bad as might have been.  I am walking, in a manner of speaking, again...for short distances  and I am back home, alone.  Two major changes due to brain damage.  I seem to have lost a lot of  the construct  of Him but  retained Wendy and ...
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  • Did not see this coming

    In hospital, suspected stroke ruled out so tomorrow they are going to throw darts at a board to see what's wrong with me. No serious problems and I have the machine that goes PING in my room.
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  • Things are More Serious but all too predictable

    I do not know where 2015 went.   Much of it was a nightmarish landscape.   I did make it back to VA last winter but it was a "working" vacation, helping friends and not even a day to see Tracy or Merideth or a friend I had lost for decades who I found just before I made the trip....
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  • Things are pretty serious and unpredictable.;

    I finally got most of my worst physical issues under control.  Then disaster hit.  Sundance is in need of constant supervision.  I was injured and have problems with my neck and brain injury (either or both could be permanent). I cannot physically care for Sundance any more. ...
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  • On the other hand....I may not.

    Katie, Kristie, Carla.... well we didn't move and when I have to move, in a year or two, it will be very complicated if we leave the area.  I would love to take the job but Sundance will remain under care for the rest of her life and the job would be 3hrs to visit her every time.  Currrent...
  • I May Disappear

    The reality is that I may soon be making a move that will leave me without Internet access for months or even years.  If it occurs I will be living in a remote area of the US.  Most of my socialization is on the Internet and has been for years.  Most of my friends are here.  If I...
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  • Upcoming Trip

    I wanted to let people know that I will be out of town for most of December and the first half of January, at least.  I will hit NYC, Richmond, and possibly Baltimore, Chicago and who knows.  Cash is short and I am not financing the trip but I have some flexibility.  Part of the trip ...
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  • Marsha, the plumber is here!

    Spending time with Marsha Ann during her SRS has been a lot of fun and quite interesting. It also has taught me more about where I am, psychologically. There are no fantasies here; only reality. It is much like my first time assisting with a delivery in Obstetrics, but far more personal. Definite...
  • EMERALD CITY

    Well, had a wonderful time in Seattle with Joni and her SO.  It was peaceful, relaxing, cool, wet and GREEEEEEEEN. I got to do a workout in their back yard in soft, green grass to my ankles.  Two whole weeks of just being me.  Not having to work at either gender.  Not deciding which gender to dr...