Learning to let go

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    One of my problems is letting go of things, such as any fights or arguments that are dead and gone. There was a little one last night, and being TG is one of them. She wants me to tell her sister, which I do agree with. I wanted to before but never got the chance. Her best friend knows. In fact, I came out to that person first. She wants her sister to know so she can talk about it with someone. I told her she could commiserate here. She turned it down. I don't push it, though, and never bring up TW unless she brings it up first. Last night was not vicious or anything, and no name calling was done.


    But this morning I had to go up to her and say "Are you still mad at me?"  Never mind that she was being nice and fine.  So there I go, not putting it behind us.  I just had to bring it back up. I did need to know if there were any issues leftover so those could be resolved.  Whenever two people are together, they will get mad at each other at one point or another, something I often need to recognize and not exacerbate. I wasn't trying to pick a fight, just know where I stand.


    My kid has a low grade fever, so I'm housebound with her today. The good news is rain is expected!  We're going to cuddle up by the window and watch it. She's missing her last day of summer daycare, and they were going to some fun place where kids play games, run around like maniacs, etc. So today we're having our own fun day.  I guess being fem will just have to wait.