Recent Entries

• V-I-C-T-I-M ?

  by Jessie Hart May 21, 2013
  The En Gender Blog written by "My Wife Betty" author Helen Boyd comes up with quite a few -"Damn I wish I had written that" thoughts. Here's one:   "I wrote this recently in response to a question, or an assertion, that nobody chooses to be born trans, but that often, the ...

• Smooch!

  by Jessie Hart May 21, 2013
  Everyonce in a while Mother Karma comes along and lays a big fat gooey Smooch on me. The latest one was this morning and I am still trying to dry off.   This morning I made the half hour trip to my daughter's to pick up most of my meds  the VA sent me.Because of schoo...
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• Not so Invisible

  by Jessie Hart April 21, 2013
  I believe I have mentioned that I finally stepped up and out by joining my local equality LGBT group.  This is huge in the sense those who talked behind my back will have to find someway else to entertain themselves.   Regardless of the outcome for all of them, I had to do what...
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• Breaking Bread

  by Jessie Hart April 13, 2013
  I can't believe it has been almost a week now since I (yes I) went to Sunday dinner with my gf's father, brother and son.   She has been pushing me to do it for quite sometime now and I finally figured why not? Actually her 15 year old son has known me for awhile and he is quite acc...
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• Let's Be Careful Out There!

  by Jessie Hart April 6, 2013
  Male Privilege" has long been one of the hot topics directed at the transgender woman. The most common lost privilege is perceived gender intelligence of course. The most dangerous loss of so called male status has to be personal security. Recently I went to a fairly good sized club in a...
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• Invisible...not Stealth

  by Jessie Hart March 22, 2013
  I have written about being invisible on a number of occasions here in Cyrsti's Condo but this one hits close to home.Recently I was invited by a transgender girl friend to go to an equality event in my town.  The event was significant primarily because I didn't even think such an acti...
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• The Trans Binary and the Titanic

  by Jessie Hart March 16, 2013
  Have you heard the "agender or neutrois" words?As so many "terms" these days it comes from younger folks who live outside of the gender binary...which also trashes  the transgender binary too.By now you may be wondering just what the heck do I mean "transgender binary"? Simple. There&...

• Token Trans

  by Jessie Hart March 16, 2013
  It's hard for me to believe, but I have been going to three of the same places for over four years now. Yes they are straight venues and yes I am talking about going in there as me. At the risk of sounding like an alcoholic, all of these places are pubs or taverns of sorts.   All three are ve...
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• Sunday Reset

  by Jessie Hart March 4, 2013
  Nearly all of my working life I have worked Sundays so now having a Sunday morning with essentially nothing to do is still special and I assume it always will be.  From my paper route to a radio DJ gig to many years in the restaurant business working Sunday was never an option.These days, since...

• The Turtle and the Hair

  by Jessie Hart March 2, 2013
  With all due respect to the old nursery rhyme and Aesop, hair is a basic focus to all transgender or cross dressing critters such as us. I think back to the ancient days of anguish over my dictated crew cut hair cut. Like many I tried scarves and even horded my paper route money...
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