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Posted by Jessie Hart
September 6, 2010
Filed in Society Girl's Personal Blogs
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First off, there are many guides that will help you become the best transgendered girl you can become.
All of these transgendered help guides have something in common. They all may not mean a thing to you! Including this one.
On the other hand (or high heel) a guide could mean everything- but it is just a guide.
Keep in mind we all have certain physical traits that lend themselves
naturally to making us more attractive women. Yes, even you have them.
You have to find them! A smart genetic female or transgendered girl
knows and works with her characteristics. I'm sure you've all seen the
average looking female work wonders with her looks if she knows what she
is doing. Being transgendered, we have to do that and more!
If you are a novice or experienced woman maybe I can help! I've made so many mistakes!
Number 1.- Find your inner girl! In many cases-not an easy task
for a transgender girl. We spend much of out lives trying to suppress
our inner girl and really don't know much about her.
Three different examples of inner girls can be found on this blog. One
of course, is me and the other two examples are women whose blogs I
follow and respect.
I knew for years my inner girl was a party woman. She liked sitting at
the bar with the girls or guys with long curly hair jeans and boots.
That's who she was and is. If the makeup is a little much or the top is a
little too tight or low cut..so be it! Never accuse her of being a
lady...always a woman!
Now lets look at "Stana". She writes a fabulous blog called "Femulate"
You can link to it here. Stana is a "dressed to the nines" professional
lady. She is as different to me as night and day. She does represent a
whole different spectrum and most importantly she knows who she is.
Somewhere in the middle could be "Janie". She seems to be in the process
of finding and enjoying her inner girl. She is a fabulous writer and
comes up with great insights. You can on occasion feel her joy in her
pictures and it's great. You can link to her site here too.
When you find who you are as a transgendered girl, that inner girl will help you get to where you want to go.
Number 2.- The number one mistake that we make is that looks are everything.
Note* I will be moving this article to it's own page on the blog. My goal is to have it be long and involved and interactive!
See it at: http://cyrstiscondo-cyrsti.blogspot.com/
