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Posted by Jessie Hart
September 13, 2010
Filed in Society Girl's Personal Blogs
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You have it together, here comes another question!
It's Saturday night and I went out after my Buckeyes posted a big win!
I was going to a slightly upscale place so I was looking for a special
outfit. After digging through the closet, I found this black shortish
"flippy" skirt.
I paired it with a white "T" under a black jacket. I loved it!
I took off and went to my spot. As I walked through the main room to the
bar, I thought "I shaved my legs for this?" Yes and it was fabulous.
Freshly shaved bare legs brushing the skirt and I was in heaven.
I also went blond (had to!) for the evening which is always kind of a reach. The
blond does get more attention which is always not so good. I don't know
if blond's really do have more fun but they get more attention!
I found a seat at the bar and was watching my Reds struggle with the
Pirates when a tallish black guy with dreads sat down next to me. Being
black is not really a factor, just part of the story later.
He was alone for about 10 minutes when his girlfriend showed up. I
thought since she was there I wouldn't have to prepare for impromptu
conversation.
WRONG.
Following another short time span, he turned to me and said "do people
treat you differently?" I said "No-Why?" "Do people treat you
differently because you a a big black guy with dreads?" He just laughed.
He was actually very polite but had to ask a few more questions. The
first question was one I should have printed on cards with an answer and
my name!
"Why do you dress as a female?" Because I want to, I love the feel of the experience, my soul tells me it's right and I can.
The answer seemed to satisfy him and he only asked one more question
(what was my given male name) before he turned back to his girl who was
chatting with another woman next to her.
My only disappointment was getting read by him. It wasn't the first and
won't be the last. It really just drives me to work harder. Saturday I
hoped I presented as good as I felt! Hopefully to the remainder of the
patrons I did.