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• by Jessie Hart August 30, 2010
  A mirror picture. Doesn't every one have one? From a party.

• A Picture's Worth A....

  by Jessie Hart August 29, 2010
  A thousand words? Or is the image a look into your soul?Can't answer either.I have noticed many pix of transgendered people do show a profound happiness or sadness.  Normally, there is no in between. When I post a new picture on my flickr photo site I get several comments and connections.  I wonder ...

• "Washington" a Failed Career Opportunity

  by Jessie Hart August 26, 2010
  I won't tell you how many years ago this occurred . Only that I had a decidedly better figure!It was "back in the day" when a Halloween party was a rare coming out event.I believe as a transgendered person you can only do one party with the same people before they start to gossip. If you c...

• Sorry Girls!

  by Jessie Hart August 26, 2010
  Still haven't delivered on the promise to provide a quick link to my main blog.http://cyrstiscondo-cyrsti.blogspot.comThere is a lot of extra content there like pix and some quick excerpts on a book I'm trying to write!Thanks for your patience!Luv ya all!Cyrsti

• Are You on the "Transdar" Screen?

  by Jessie Hart August 26, 2010
  If you've ever heard of "gaydar" (intuitively feeling someone is gay), "transdar" is the same. Forget flamboyant males and ultra masculine women. (Nothing wrong with either) Transdar occurs when you see a person that almost looks 100 % female-but is not quite.I've been in...

• Back In Style!

  by Jessie Hart August 22, 2010
  Although the great majority of girls in the transgendered community never put their pantyhose away-or did it grudgingly- they are making a comeback. Apparently, according to a story in the London Daily Express, skintone pantyhose are coming back into fashion.  And guess who is at the forefron...

• You Lookin at ME?

  by Jessie Hart August 21, 2010
  We have covered a lot of gender communication basics here recently. It's a forgone conclusion that women listen better. Females also utilize sight and touch better than males. But what about that damn scowl pasted permanently on male faces? Women smile more? Why? If you asked my Dad why, he wo...

• Con Job

  by Jessie Hart August 20, 2010
  Relax! It's just me I'm conning. A couple nights ago I had one of those heavenly evenings wherever everything seemed to be going right. I'm usually so insecure of how I look (the whole process). My first stop, I played some trivia and ate an appetizer.  On my way out I stopped in the Ladies'...

• Dammit!

  by Jessie Hart August 15, 2010
  Shannel Just when I think I am this beautiful creature with the perfect clothes and make up...I see this shot of "Shannel" from "RuPauls' Drag Race" TV Show. Oh well, probably nobody likes her! Lets see now. Where's that new foundation I just bought!

• Is the Grass Really Greener?

  by Jessie Hart August 14, 2010
  For years I've lived in a world where I felt the female gender had an advantage. After all girls are supposed to be the more intuitive gender. Guys are fairly straight forward critters and women know the game! During the last week, I've started to rethink my thoughts. Last Sunday night one of m...