Well it seems that for me that 2012-13 has been the year of reckoning for me.
I finally gave the denial processi been hiding behind for 44 years.a heave hoe
my life at a start :
When i was little say elementry school exspecially in recess i found ihad no interest in what the males were doing
but i found myself gravitating toward where the girls were playing.
there they were playng games like hopsotch or jumping rope.
but at home
i use look out my bedroom window and spy on the girl next door . Out in her back yard she had a play house .\
Whereshe was pretending to serve tea to her dolls .
Everyday that i watched her.
i notice that she would ware some pretty dresses and ribbons in her hair
than i would look at my self dresses and i would have on the same old drab cloths .
later in what we in the states call jr high school
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i was noticing that most of the girls were delevoping bump on their chest
My dad called them boobs when i asked him one day.
what i did noticed be side of their biological changes .
That i was getting enyious of the girls and how they were being treated by other students
i notice the girls with the biggest boobs were geting the most attention.
For i as a male was getting no attention from any body male or female.
that i was differant
In high school i noticed a big change in me .
For some reason i started to be attracted to some of the boys in school.
this threw me for a loop. For i thought i was gay buy what i heard was the standards in the 70s.
but i was still had the attraction to the girls and want to be around them.
Deep inside i was feeling i want to be one of them(the girls) for some reason.
Later i decided that to deal with this see /saw of gender feelings ,
So i started crossdressing using my moms cloths.
Doingthis for many years brought me to feel shame . So my denial of my trues feeling was activated.
so Iactivated a series of denial by pruging. By hiding my feelings and the closetedcross dressing on and of for 44 years.
, till the feeling s got so great that The femalenes inside me was leaking out of me as i talked acted upon stuff and
i couldnt stand no more and i seeked medical help. there through aseries of interviewsand self inner examination and with her help .
i had decide to go with the flow of my gender feelings .
Eventhough they conflict with my male gender feeling at the moment
so as of this writing i have recieved my letter for hormon treatment from my therapist and start taking the mone.
i hope this helps me out and settles my inside and my soul.
May 18, 2013- -
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