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  • 14 Jun 2016
    I've mentioned a few times that I come from a christian family and they are having trouble fully accepting me. In fact, from a christian POV or what my family tells me as much as I feel like I want to go FtM and get the surgery, that'd be the final nail in the coffin and would "send me to hell". In other words, if I "give in" and have sex with girls once in awhile I may be forgiven, but if I go through with the lifestyle and get the sex change, there's no way I'll be going to heaven.. So to be 100% honest I'm a bit scared to go through with this at times to say the least. Are there any christian members out there with advice? (Anyone can comment though of course). I probably should've asked this sooner, but I was nervous to be honest. I don't want to offend anyone or be seen as a coward for not living the lifestyle, but I also don't want my family to hate me. I don't believe my mom will hate or disown me, but my dad might... That's why I'm worried. 
    1435 Posted by Kris McKinley
  • 05 Sep 2015
    I would appreciate some opinions on hairstyles.. I haven't come out fully as trans and as much as I'd love to just shave my head or have a realllly short hairstyle... I'm afraid of my father making comments like "You look butch" or "where's your bike" ...He just sees these as jokes and even has a gay friend, but I don't think he can handle seeing that his daughter feels like a son to him... Anyway, my question is, is a short bob hairstyle considered gender neutral? It seems like the best I can get away with for now and I don't really mind looking gender neutral even though I'd rather look like a male.
    1407 Posted by Kris McKinley
  • 21 May 2016
    It's been awhile since I've last visited this site. How's everyone doing? I finally got the balls to get my hair cut lol. This was a big deal for me because I come from a religious family and my father is always looking at girls with short hair saying remarks like "Dyke on a bike" and "Carpet Muncher" so I thought if I got my hair cut he'd get mad and say that to me. I was worried over nothing though because my family actually likes my hair. My dad did seem shocked, but didn't turn out too bad. It feels so much better having hair like this and I feel one step closer to being myself. :)
    1375 Posted by Kris McKinley
  • 24 Aug 2015
    Hello, I'm Kris and this will be my first blog post. I just joined this site recently and I've been really hesitent to joining the community because I come from a religious family... I'm currently trying to figure out if I am transgender, transsexual, or if I'm just going through gender identity... I shouldn't say just because even if it is that I absolutely can't stand it! Every time I'm called a she/her, pretty/beautiful I get upset... I hate that feeling because I know it's supposed to be a compliment, but I take it as an insult. I've been fighting this since I was a kid, but it didn't become that apparent until 8th grade. Anyway, I'd love to make friends on here and (off topic a bit) if anyone here has a wattpad account, let me know. :) I love to write and I one day hope my stories can be animated. 
    1350 Posted by Kris McKinley
1,636 views May 25, 2016
Offensive character??

I wanted to make this a poll, but the question was too long lol. Basically, I am going to be writing a book in the future about an experience I had with an old friend of mine. It will be an LGBT book and I'm a little concerned that one of the villains might be a bit too offensive.. The villain is a transsexual FtM who was brought up by a christian family. He ended up feeling so repressed and angry at God for making him the "wrong gender" and ends up selling his soul to the devil to become the "correct gender". The message is only supposed to be that it can be really difficult dealing with religion while being trans, but I fear people will think I'm saying trans people are evil. (Which of course I'm not since I am one). Should I just make a good trans character too? Any thoughts are greatly appreciated.

Tags: #lgbt book 


  • michelle/mitchell self
    michelle/mitchell self the thing about writing stories you got to have a protagonist and antagonist.
    yes a pro tag can have some bad qualities , or an antag can have some good qualities. what you got to do first it have make a character break down.For each ,main character...  more
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  • Kris McKinley
    Kris McKinley I agree, this is just one of the main antagonists in the story. I only wanted to bring this one up in particular because I was afraid he/she was too offensive. The 2 protagonists are my best friend and I. Or well, characters based on us, that is lol.
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  • Kris McKinley
    Kris McKinley One thing I do need to work on as a writer I've been told is viewpoint though. Switching between different viewpoints can be challenging for me.
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  • Kris McKinley
    Kris McKinley Oh yeah, he's definitely an antagonist lol. I didn't realize that I wasn't clear on that so my bad. xD I definitely don't think anyone will or should feel too bad for this character because of how he acts. I mean, maybe it's a little understandable to...  more
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