September 24, 2005 6:29 PM BST
I know some of you don't like lables, but we need labels in order to communicate. The misuse of labels is the key problem, in my opinion. Here are my definitions of several terms I used in the above post.
gender - This term refers to the combination of one's various personality traits as being predominantly masculine, feminine, or androgynous. It's primarily about psychology and sociology, not biology. Gender and sex are very much related, but they are two different things. Typically, the terms "man" and "woman" describe one's gender, not one's sex.
sex - This term refers to one's biological/physical sex; whether one is male, female, or intersex. One's sexual identity doesn't necessarily determine one's gender identity, but the two are very closely related.
cross dresser - This term describes one who temporarily dresses in the clothes and/or temporarily assumes the identity of the other gender.
transvestite (formerly transvestitite) - This was the original term for an individual we would now call a "cross dresser," and in some circles, the two terms are still interchangeable. However, over the last few years, the trend has been to restrict use this term to describing those who are transvestic fetishists (those who obtain sexual arousal through cross dressing).
drag queen - A drag queen is a male performer who, unlike a female impersonator, takes femininity to exaggerated levels, for entertainment purposes (usually in gay bars and other LGBT hangouts, but also in the mainstream). More often than not, drag queens are gay males who are not transgender, but some are straight, and some are transgender.
she-male - This is usually considered a derogatory term to describe male prostitutes and porn models/performers who have used hormone treatment and/or surgery to acquire female secondary sex characteristics, while retaining male genitalia. To avoid insulting someone, a more appropriate term should be used outside of this context.
transgender - This term has two common uses.
1. It describes one who's sex and gender don't match, from that person's perspective. Another way to state it, is that one's assigned gender (assigned by society/culture) doesn't match the gender with which one identifies. Most cultures automatically assign gender to an individual at birth, based on that individual's sex. Some transgenderists live double lives, while others live full-time as their true gender, regardless of their biological sex. One can be transgender with or without being transsexual. Prior to the existence of the term "transgender," transgender individuals were inaccurately referred to as either transvestites or transsexuals.
2. It's also used as an umbrella term to capture all of the terms discussed here, as well as a few others. Often, when used in this way, it's shortened to "trans," and transgender individuals are often referred to as "trannies," which is where this website got its name.
transsexual - This term describes one who identifies with the other sex, and usually implies that one has a desire to become the other sex, to whatever extent medical technology allows (typically, hormone therapy and various types of cosmetic surgery, combined with psychological counseling). A transsexual can be pre-operative, post-operative, or non-operative, with regard to sex reassignment surgery (SRS). One can be transsexual with or without being transgender, but most transsexuals are also transgender.
transition - One transitions when one begins to live as one's true gender. For example, if a male tranny has lived primarily as a man, and then begins to live as a woman, he is in the process of transitioning. The process of transitioning can be short or long, and the goal can be full-time or part-time, although "transition" more often implies living full-time as one's true gender. Sometimes, "transition" includes the process of changing one's sex through SRS, but that is not always implied by the term.
pass - Passing is the ability of one to convince others that one is the other gender and/or sex (the primary focus is on gender). Some trannies place a high importance on passing, but others do not. While the ability to pass does make life easier for many trannies, it is by no means a criteria for transitioning. Recognizing one's own gender and/or sexual identity, and being comfortable/happy with oneself, usually take priority over whether one will be obviously trans; physically, vocally, or otherwise.