March 20, 2010 7:57 AM GMT
Marsha,
I found it interesting that, on the day you wrote about Rosa Parks, two gay, military officers chained themselves to the White House fence to protest "Don't Ask, Don't Tell". The wore their uniforms. It was a dramatic gesture. Often these images have great power, as did Rosa Parks. To my mind, these two are heroes. They swore to defend and uphold the Constitution of the United States of America against ALL enemies, foreign and DOMESTIC. And that is exactly what they are doing, defending human rights in the broadest intention and the clear path of change that has occurred over time to that document. It reminds me of Billy Mitchell, an earlier military hero who bucked the system, at great price, to be sure his country was secure and "defended".
"I, do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic; that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; and that I will obey the orders of the president of the United States and the orders of the officers appointed over me, according to regulations and the Uniform Code of Military Justice. So help me God."
As far as you hurting your family. It is their choice to be hurt, or not, by anything in their lives. Not yours....unless you can alter emotions through some magic I am unfamiliar with.