Torquay T-Girls Weekend

  • July 19, 2012 5:25 PM BST

    Layla and I were discussing the possibilities of a weekend for t-girls and I suggested my home town of Torquay and have now found a lovely quiet hotel which is gay and t-girl friendly.  Today I went down to meet the owners and discuss possible dates etc and the best weekenc for them at the moment is either the last weekend of September (arriving Friday 28th September/departing Sunday 30th) or the first weekend in October (arriving Friday 5th October/departing Sunday 7th).

    People could choose to arrive on the Saturday and depart on the Monday if they so wish - or if you want to make a really long weekend of it you can opt to arrive on the Friday and depart on the Monday, the hotel is very flexible about this.

    The hotel is very clean and comfortable and a bit olde-worlde, certainly not like any of the Premiere Lodge Inns dotted around the country.  Nice gardens and, if we would like, he will put on a barbeque for us on the Saturday evening (weather permitting).

    Torquay is very free from transphobia and there have only been 2 reported transphobic incidents in the town during the last three years.

    The hotel is the Cliff House Hotel and you can view their web site here:-
    http://www.cliffhousehotel.co.uk/

    Below is a photograph of the nearby beach (Meadfoot Beach if anybody knows the area):-


    This post was edited by Former Member at August 6, 2012 8:31 AM BST
  • July 19, 2012 5:33 PM BST

    Anybody interested please leave your name below and the weekend that you would prefer


    This post was edited by Former Member at July 19, 2012 7:37 PM BST
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    July 19, 2012 9:15 PM BST

    I could only manage the 28 - 30th as St Audries finishes on 23 sept - so I would need to book for the whole week 23 -to-30th 2 weeks as rosie he he


    This post was edited by rosie Bush at July 19, 2012 9:16 PM BST
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    July 19, 2012 10:09 PM BST
    Yep, I fink I'm up for that.
    (in the best possible taste)
  • July 19, 2012 11:45 PM BST
    Looks a lovely spot girls book me down, ready for a hol. xxxx late september would suit me.
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    July 20, 2012 5:43 AM BST
    I 'm happy to atttend either weekend,depends on the weather really
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    July 23, 2012 6:06 AM BST
    I would love to come to and either date would be ok.
  • July 24, 2012 8:25 AM BST

    The last weekend in September has been now chosen. Please book directly with the hotel and also say it is with the Gender Society T-Girls Weekend when you book. The telephone number is 01803 294 656

    Most people will be arriving on Friday 28th September and leaving Sunday 30th September, others might prefer to arrive Saturday and leave Monday, but if you want to make a long weekend of it, why not stay Friday til Monday.  The prices are very reasonable at around £35 per night, so it is well worth staying that extra day - go on, treat yourselves, you know you're worth it.


    This post was edited by Former Member at July 24, 2012 8:30 AM BST
  • July 24, 2012 4:21 PM BST
    I have just been down to the hotel again this afternoon to confirm the dates and with the state of the weather, there has been an upturn in the advanced bookings - SO PLEASE BOOK YOUR ROOM QUICKLY TO AVOID DISAPPOINTMENT
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    July 24, 2012 4:21 PM BST
    Hi Girls - -- done it - I have booked for 7 nights 23rd to 30 th sept--- am gona make a meal of it lol
  • July 25, 2012 11:05 AM BST

    Confirmed Bookings:-

    Carol
    Rosie
    Matt
    Layla
    April
    Felicity
    Roslyn
    Sabini
    Katie - didn't come
    Sairah
    Tina
    Janey
    Karen
    Chris
    Keef - didn't come
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    Total 13


    This post was edited by Former Member at October 1, 2012 1:17 AM BST
  • July 25, 2012 1:35 PM BST
    Booked the hotel from 28th September to 30th September, leaving on 1st October. Looking forward to seeing you all there xx
     
    Felicity
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    July 25, 2012 3:03 PM BST
    I'm booked in for the whole week from Sunday 23rd following on directly from my holiday at St Audries Bay. (Same as Rosie)
    Roslyn
  • July 25, 2012 6:50 PM BST
    Great stuff ladies - the more the merrier xx
  • July 26, 2012 10:54 PM BST

    Thank you for your message Carol, I am certanily interested, Might be to much for me as a crossdresser but I would love to meet you all and be Karen as I want to be. Funny enough I would like to get away the first weekend in Sept / Oct. Can you give me more details please. Thanks for now 

     

    Love Karen XXX

  • July 27, 2012 8:41 AM BST

    Hi Karen love,

    The hotel is gay and t-girl friendly (see my description at the top of the page).  If you feel uncomfortable going out dressed, then that is fine - dress when you want and go in drab if you wish to go out to dine etc.  It can be a huge step from dressing alone and at home to taking those first few tentative steps through the door and everybody does it in their own time.  It is meant to be a comfortable experience for everybody, so nobody will force you to do something that you feel uneasy about.  Just being in the company of other t-girls can be a tremendous experience and the hotel is small and friendly and so you will not have the fear of being mocked or ridiculed by any of the other guests.  If you need help and advice on makeup there will be plenty of girls who can help out with that.

    As you said in your profile "Hopin­g to spend­ a weekend­ away when­ I can dre­ss as a wo­man all th­e time" - well here is that opportunity for you to do so in safety and at your own comfort level

    Carol xx

  • July 27, 2012 10:41 AM BST
    Wooooh booked the hotel this morning, see you all there yayyyyy. Be lovely to meet everyone after all this time in chat. xxxx Janey.
  • July 27, 2012 10:51 AM BST
    Way to go Janey - thought you were getting cold feet for the moment - but I guess that is not possible in the cuurent weather lol xx

    Carol xx
  • July 27, 2012 12:22 PM BST
    Damp feet Carol fed up of the wellies lol. Smiles. xxx
  • July 27, 2012 2:21 PM BST
    ..... and welcome Karen, your little adventure starts soon

    Carol xx
  • July 31, 2012 2:31 PM BST
    Well I have booked Thursday to Sunday :-)
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    July 31, 2012 9:38 PM BST
    Just thought id mention me and April booked a few days ago.
    Peace out xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • August 2, 2012 1:35 AM BST
    I'm up for this, if you'll have me
  • August 2, 2012 1:38 AM BST
    Of course, we would love to see you there Keith xx
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    August 2, 2012 11:20 AM BST
    Its growing legs.
  • August 2, 2012 4:37 PM BST
    It certainly is Layla - and if you can manage to persuade those other two people, then the total will be 17 - which wildly exceeds my expectations. So thank you everybody who is coming and helping to make this a success

    Carol xx
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    August 6, 2012 12:47 PM BST
    Hi Carol,
    Sadly I won't be able to make it at this point... but if another is organised for next year then I would be interested.
    Anne
  • August 6, 2012 8:01 PM BST
    Sadly I'm out as well. Looks like a brilliant time too be had by all. Have fun girls, I'm jealous. X
  • August 11, 2012 4:24 PM BST

    Update:

    It would look as if all the available rooms are now booked - Monique tried to book earlier and she has telephoned me to tell me that. If anybody would be willing to share a twin bedded room would you please let me know here so that possible extra accommodations can be made.  Monique really wants to come, but because of other conflicting things she wasn't sure she would be available until now.

    Thanks

    Carol xx

    PS  I will be speaking with Robert (the owner) later on this evening to clarify the situation


    This post was edited by Former Member at August 11, 2012 4:46 PM BST
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    August 11, 2012 5:07 PM BST
    Wow that is pretty O.o!
    Anyone know of any good city's in the USA that are trans friendly? Trying to find a new place to move to.
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    August 11, 2012 5:11 PM BST
    I'd love to go but maybe another time. Lost my job recently from getting into it with the manager for calling me an it. I: So maybe other time when I got $ to go lol
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    September 2, 2012 10:11 AM BST
    Sorry I haven't been on-line for a while, very busy at the moment. Really looking forward to meeting everyone in Torquay. Very excited and can't wait! XXX
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    September 2, 2012 10:27 AM BST
    He he --- You are not the only one tina xx
  • September 5, 2012 1:31 PM BST
    It will soon be here Tina

    Carol xx
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    September 28, 2012 9:57 AM BST
    See you there girls
  • September 30, 2012 3:23 AM BST

    Well this is a group photograph before we all headed off to a night club for the evening

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    September 30, 2012 5:32 AM BST
    I just looked up flights to london, for a hopeful next year. You girls all look lovely and I wish I was there.
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    September 30, 2012 8:10 AM BST
    This is amazing!! You all look stunning! I'm so happy you got to do this!! xxx
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    September 30, 2012 11:39 AM BST
    Great photo, girls!
    Lovely to see you all together.
    xx
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    September 30, 2012 4:27 PM BST
    great photo. you look like you all had a good ttime. It's a shame I couldn't make it... maybe next time.

  • September 30, 2012 7:44 PM BST
    Well, everybody had a great time (some still are as they don't leave until tomorrow morning), but many were asking for another event to be put on sooner rather than later.

    To give me an idea of how many people might be interested in a twice yearly event rather than an annual event. You can find the poll here:-
    http://gendersociety.com/polls/view/105/torquay-t-girls-weekends

    Thank you to everybody who attended this inaugural event and making it the success that it was.
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    September 30, 2012 8:34 PM BST
    Wish I'd found this website a few months ago. I would have come for the weekend with my partner.
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    September 30, 2012 8:44 PM BST
    We need a similar event up north, Manchester's "Village" for example...
    xx
  • September 30, 2012 9:31 PM BST
    I'm glad everybody had a great time, but I was wondering for all the North American girls, who would be interested in participating in such an event like this?
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    September 30, 2012 10:44 PM BST
    I second that suggestion Lucy.I have been to the "Village" a few times and had a wonderful time, so i would definitely come if dates suited.
  • October 1, 2012 12:48 AM BST
    We will be having more Jennifer
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    October 1, 2012 4:06 PM BST
    Home safe & sound. I had a great time. Thanks Carol.
  • October 1, 2012 6:32 PM BST
    Glad you got back safe and sound Roslyn
  • October 1, 2012 6:33 PM BST
    Glad you got back safe and sound Roslyn
  • October 1, 2012 6:37 PM BST
    Carol Thank you for organizing the weekend it was good fun..:-)