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• Spring time for Donna and all 2015

  by Donna V March 19, 2015
  Hi All, just a follow on from my last blog.Now that I have had that conversation with my Partner Theres a sense of relief , and sense of purpose replacing those feeling s of fear doubt. In a way its enabling both of us.I am hopeful for the future . As an insight into our relationship , we dont use &...

• explanation why don't I blog

  by Donna V March 3, 2015
  I could be flippant and say I have Severe Procrastination Disorder, but its really quite simple when I can look myself . Its goes like this   REALIZATION and FALSE REALiITY-you know you are Transgendered , but clueless, l-ike me you may well have lived a life not felling 100% percent part of t...
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• Everything,or nothing

  by Donna V July 19, 2014
  Hi All,        Just sharing some thoughts, I guess some of you may have read my blogs and been confused. [Thanks Emma, for helping me focus]. Anyway Yesterday visited boots to pick up prescription. My boobs are coming on nicely and help with confidence.,even if I have now got a...
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• Reality,Relationship

  by Donna V July 3, 2014
  I haven't posted for a while,  and I have been through a bad spell.To just spit it out , I have got to that stage , where I NEED to make a break from those closest to me.Simply because it has become UNBEARABLE.I made a bad choice in sacrificing myself, moving back into a relation with my long ...
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• Cut the cord, and being you

  by Donna V March 13, 2014
  Just an update, ..So I was planning to transition at work and things seemed to be going okay , then as often in happens life something just happens and it did . It kind of goes like this , I always had a bit of a strained relationship with my immediate boss, he being a control freak opinionated and ...
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• Tricky but True,"kick back" to accepptance and understanding M

  by Donna V February 8, 2014
  Just had a an out pof the blue talk with my long term partner . Shes a medical professional. It was about my holding back and not telling her everything , .She is a bit of a control freak at times , and yes I let her be that way and oblige not putting up much of an oppposition. And Yes you guessed i...
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• Thoughts in the middle of transition at work

  by Donna V January 23, 2014
  Hi All,    Just thought I would capture some thoughts of the moment as they happen to me.  I work for a  company like many others ,its got its structure and you are recognised if you can do your job in a professional respectful way. Since I made my initial declarations at work ...
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• Epiphany :- Big step at work .. and now

  by Donna V January 6, 2014
  So Today 6th Jan , after much umming and arring ,meaning to do it early after initially telling HR that I needed to Transition before Christmas ..  Also I admit I was Inspired by the idea and meaning of the Epiphany. Not that I am Religious more the idea it being  a moment of sudden and g...
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• Working at it! Time for Presents

  by Donna V December 11, 2013
  Writing down a few thoughts and sharing as it has been 2 weeks since I announced to HR at work that I was Transgendered, was under medical supervision and I was going to transition. All of this has been an informal talk to HR one to one. very open , and to the point . On the one hand its a really bi...
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• Work and ME ,an adjustment?

  by Donna V November 17, 2013
  Just a quick collection of thoughts .as in the next week I will make the arrangements and announcement at work that I am Transexual and will be transitioning , will be making the request to be addressed as Donna a female , change email ,passport etc..  After lots of stops and starts , the progr...
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