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• This happened to me...true story

  by Donna V September 12, 2013
  I think it was a 2years or more  ago  this happened.and its an experience that re-surfaced recently .I will share it and see what you think .   My partner and I are not really sociable , and it just happens to be that most the friendships are with retired folks. we are just over 50 a...
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• Apprehension, the Inevitable,but I have told you

  by Donna V August 30, 2013
  I really cant carry on the fraud. its not me . Yes I dress in drab still when circumstances seem to demand. its driving me crazy!! .I am apprehensive  because I just feel its the time when my life is going to change . I genuinely have a fear for the long term relationship I have been in . The T...
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• Musing about

  by Donna V August 12, 2013
  Its a slow learning process , and you learn by putting yourself out . It initially was a case of well outside  your own boxed comfort zone, but theres a comfort now with being myself. Still plenty pf work to do though, I am a work in progress, it s  major and  long term  Got out...

• Rainy Day, Some thoughts

  by Donna V November 24, 2012
  Hi , Thought i would just put something down here for the folks who visit here.A bit introspective though . I have just had a week holiday, my partner is visting her father in Germany. I am at home with dogs doing things around the House , and yes enjoying a few shopping trips . . pretty much Donna...

• ready or Not Coming out ,workpt4

  by Donna V May 23, 2012
  Hi All,          I find myself in a strange state  that I thought maybe I got   "got through", but realise perhaps now  that was wishful thinking . Its that aspect of transistioning when you realised that you have moved on  significantly as a person , so...

• Coming out Ready or Not, and work part2?

  by Donna V April 27, 2012
  So Thats it Change is inevitable .sometimes we see it ,but often not.. we all have our Blind spots and partial views  so to speak, and increasingly  we cant stop theses changes happening . I got notified officially at work that I was being made redundant . At times in the recent past , I h...

• Well..Nice Day Out

  by Donna V April 16, 2012
  Today I took  day off Work   to see gender specialist in London, 3 months  on from blogging about the Miranda score and Waterloo  Sunset  . I thoroughly enjoyed the day, even though it started  very cold , but soon warmed up clear sky bright Sun Shine. I decided to wear...
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• Coming out Ready or Not, and work?

  by Donna V April 4, 2012
  Hiya All,             Well Today I have got a feeling of "things are about to change", but not in an apprehensive way. A kind of pivotal moment when the the weight of various things  that have been holding me down in a " restrained static state of balance" sort of...
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• This week...

  by Donna V March 19, 2012
  This week, just a normal week...like all the others  living in stealth ..put up with your lot .. an extreme case of not want to upset anyone... get your work done. You seem okay to me   . But its NOT . I collect my official  copies of deed poll [ uk name change] . see the GP [docto...

• Waterloo Sunset, and The Miranda Score

  by Donna V January 16, 2012
  So Today , I took a days Holiday  went to London, main reason was see  gender Specialist for routine appointment. Writing now I think I should explain first what a "Miranda" is and How its part of a Transgendered Persons life [ at least M2F]. Miranda Hart is a UK Comedienne [ a GG] quite ...
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