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    • March 12, 2016 4:20 PM GMT
    • Glad to hear that things are going well Nikki.

      Hugs, Katie   :)

    • March 11, 2016 10:58 AM GMT
    • The sun is shining, I have a day off from work so a nice long weekend for me, I've just bought a new dress and tonight I am meeting my best friend for a good training session in the pool. 

      Big smiles all around. 

       

       

    • March 11, 2016 4:29 PM GMT
    • In that can, welcome back Michelle. 

    • March 9, 2016 8:54 PM GMT
    • Good morning everyone :)  Seems I have been sleeping for a while since its been long time since I came back here.  I hope everyone is having a good day.  Now I will go back to drinking my coffee and clear some of the cobwebs in my head :P

    • March 10, 2016 7:21 PM GMT
    • I have had better ones but any day I wake up and still have a pulse is always going to be good!! 

    • March 9, 2016 8:48 PM GMT
    • Good morning Nikki :)  Thank you for those wise words :)  I hope you are having a good day also :)

    • March 9, 2016 5:27 PM GMT
    • Hi Nikki.

      I remember a comedy program using that line. I am sure it was only fools and horses and Del boy said "Well I would like to bloody meet them".

       

      anyway they are wise words. Please do not be a stranger here , your input is valued more than you may think.

       

      Take care , Julia xx

    • March 9, 2016 2:35 PM GMT
    • Good morning everyone! 

       

      I hope you are all haivng a good day but if not just remember, there is always somebody worse off than you. 

    • March 8, 2016 7:44 PM GMT
    • Hi Karen,

      It's a very late 'hello' from me as I am not here much for similar reasons as yourself but it's still good to see you!! I hope you have been well. 

      That goes for you too Wendy. 

    • January 28, 2016 1:22 AM GMT
    • Hi, Karen.    Makes two of us back  from away.   Hugs.

    • January 25, 2016 8:11 PM GMT
    • Hi Karen,

      It's really nice to see you back again - I hope everything's going well :)

      hugs,

      Judith

    • January 25, 2016 10:01 AM GMT
    • I haven't posted here in a long time. So I thought I'd just say Hello!!!

    • January 28, 2016 1:39 AM GMT
    • Linda,

      I hate buying His clothes so much I had to ask my SO to do it for me.  Ask her to shop?   Yah, not going to turn that down, is she?   On the other hand, I loved helping her shop for her clothes and she loved me doing so.

      Over time, I have found that I have even begun to enjoy doing His laundry as it is Wendy doing it and I match up outfits like I do for Her clothes (Wendy).  Compimentary colors, triads, fabrics and patterns.  All my clothes are carefully folded as if they just came from the store shelf.  Admittedly I do it during commercials and news programs, but it is a  slightly better than neutral experience.  I have found other things that I did not used to like were probably supression of my true feelings while role-playing a male.  Still have not managed to get excited about hand sewing repairs, however.

      I do not really enjoy doing Wendy's laundry, however, because it signals the end of my time alone and fully in Wendy mode and a return to supression of my feelings and behavior.  Not a happy time.  I am just packing things up and going back "on stage".  Not ever a happy time.

      I do find, however, that Wendy does not much mind doing housekeeping and it has carried over into my male life.

      It is interesting how you cope.

    • January 12, 2016 4:22 AM GMT
    • Today was laundry day.  No one enjoys that chore.  However, I had a unique delight while completing this necessary chore.  I first did all of my boy clothes.  Finishing it was a matter of that shirt goes with those trousers.  No emotion, or feeling.  A basic, no emotion boring job.  Nothing more.  Then, it was time for my dresses and girl underthings.  I found that although it was still essentially the same task, it took on a different set of thoughts.  I remembered the softness of that red dress.  I remembered how much that blue “A” line showed off my legs.  The caress of that one, the delight I had in wearing the other one.  I found delight in the remembrance, and a chore became a delightful memory.

    • December 31, 2015 1:35 PM GMT
    • It dit!  It was a long day and doing very unladylike work but the lacey tee and panties help.

    • December 30, 2015 8:16 PM GMT
    • I hope the day met your expectations!

      Happy holidays!

    • December 30, 2015 2:33 PM GMT
    • Leggings and a ladies tee (very lacey), a dash of lipstick and this T-girl is underdressed to kill.  It look like it will be a great day!

    • December 30, 2015 2:17 PM GMT
    • Very neat find.  I like it.  Quick pace and the content is so deep. :)

      Merry Christmas to you to  Karen

       

    • December 22, 2015 2:05 PM GMT
    • Happy Christmas !

       

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xqvQOvE0vA&list=PLsdQOO5sq1-rbnBZJVjn7eKKSXkdye8f0&index=9

    • December 3, 2015 2:06 PM GMT
    • What is on my mind right now is a job interview I have this afternoon.  I am very nervious about it.   Hope all goes well for me.   This is even cutting into my panty thoughts.   Oh my that does not happen very often.

    • December 3, 2015 4:11 AM GMT
    • Pink sounds good.  Right now I too have my purple panties on.  No bra though :(  But I do have orange polish on my toes.  I had a pedicure last month and it is just getting chipped and worn enough that I may have to change.  Hmmmm I do have pink and plum.  Now which one to use?

       

    • December 2, 2015 11:48 PM GMT
    • Ah this mornig was a mix of pleasures.

      It was a dreary day here but this means I can wear some heavier clotes and underneath my favorite bra and always my panies.

      Its also time to redo my toenails in pink. Life is alway good on this side f the planet.

      Bobbi

    • November 30, 2015 8:17 PM GMT
    • So the forum is about what is on my mind right now.  That would have to be my bright pink string bikini swim bottom and how good my bottom looks in it!   The black ladies tee looks good too!

    • November 19, 2015 3:44 AM GMT
    • So tomorrow it is suppose to be cold here.

      A great day for underdressing in leggings and a ladies Tee I should think.

      Hmmm Pink panties, white leggings and maybe a purple top?

      Probably a good thing the coworkers do not know.

    • November 19, 2015 3:40 AM GMT
    • Hey Jessi

      This is many days later but I did have a wonderful day in white capris and and snazzy top and bra!

    • September 28, 2015 5:06 PM BST
    • Beautiful day.  A bit chilled, but beautiful nonetheless.

      I hope all of you have a glorious day!

       

      -Jessi

    • November 19, 2015 3:31 AM GMT
    • Hi Michelle

      You are no longer a newbie.  I have you beat by many weeks.  So in my books you are one of the veteran girls.   This seems like a nicely layed out site to me.  I am still figuring things out.  I use to be scared when I came on these sites.   Now I just pull up my big girl panties and enjoy the visit.

       

    • October 20, 2015 12:57 AM BST
    • Hi Lucy and thanks for the welcome.  I really appreciate it :)

      Well as long as being a newbie is short not long then I am happy :)

    • October 20, 2015 12:41 AM BST
    • I'm sure we all know about conflicting impulses.

      Welcome Michelle, you won't be the newbie for long, I promise :)

      xx

    • October 20, 2015 12:06 AM BST
    • Good morning to all.  Kinda mixed for me.  Part of me is excited to join the website.  Meet new people, poke around and see what there is and have fun. Part of me wants to go hide behind that rock before anybody notices me.  Scared because it is not familar.  Most of all hates being the newbie.  What if I post something stupid or in the wrong place?  Part of me is being lazy in that it wants me to keep looking around, better than doing what I should be doing.  That is doing chores and yard work.  Well such is life, nothing but conflicting impluses all the time :P

    • August 24, 2015 11:26 AM BST
    • Welcome Kayleigh , we are ready to helps you. You can ask anything about the gender society.

      Regards

      Forzest

    • July 29, 2015 11:11 PM BST
    • Really starting to get excited now as I am going for a four hour makeover sessin today with a makeupartist and photgrapher who specialises in helping TG's. She does all sorts of clasess including make up and shopping along with deportment etc etc.

       

      Included in the service is a complete wardrobe, including breast forms, wigs, makeup shoes etc etc.

       

      I have never had the chance to have my makeup done professionsally so have no real idea of how good/bad I will look. I am failry confident I will look the best I ever have and maybe it will help me make my decision about my future.

      Will post some pics and a full review later today unless I decide to go "out on the town" for a bit of fun. I do suspect I will be more likly to come home and put my feet up.

       

      Sarah T

    • July 29, 2015 11:11 PM BST
    • Really starting to get excited now as I am going for a four hour makeover sessin today with a makeupartist and photgrapher who specialises in helping TG's. She does all sorts of clasess including make up and shopping along with deportment etc etc.

       

      Included in the service is a complete wardrobe, including breast forms, wigs, makeup shoes etc etc.

       

      I have never had the chance to have my makeup done professionsally so have no real idea of how good/bad I will look. I am failry confident I will look the best I ever have and maybe it will help me make my decision about my future.

      Will post some pics and a full review later today unless I decide to go "out on the town" for a bit of fun. I do suspect I will be more likly to come home and put my feet up.

       

      Sarah T

    • July 17, 2015 8:22 AM BST
    • Do not stress on how far you have to go, focus on how far you've come x

      A smile is the most beautiful curve on a woman's body... Very True x

    • June 21, 2015 10:17 PM BST
    • Innocenthmmmmmmm

    • June 21, 2015 9:14 PM BST
    • If you cannot find the truth right where you are, where else do you expect to find it? ~Dōgen Zenji

    • June 14, 2015 1:27 AM BST
    • Life is like a lift(elevator)  You have your UPs , Your downs, And some days you get the Shaft!Yell

    • June 13, 2015 3:11 PM BST

    • A man is like mascara, first sign of emotion and it runs.


      Cristine Shye Quotes

    • June 13, 2015 6:44 AM BST
    • There is nothing more restorative to a person than their own happiness,
      Ekk! I've forgotten who.wrote.this...someone on here Briana Q? ♥ Xxxx

    • June 13, 2015 12:21 AM BST
    • Your Ship will come in. But you might be at the wrong dockSurprised

    • June 11, 2015 9:29 PM BST
    • We are all in the same boat, we might be on different decks.

       

      BUT if the boat sinks we all get stuffed, just the same.

       

      Cristine Shye Quotes

    • June 11, 2015 9:25 PM BST
    • “Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else.”


      Judy Garland

    • June 11, 2015 4:54 PM BST
    • My quote from a conversation with my sister,

      'how better to reflect true strength than to be yourself.' ..... If this is not credited to anyone please credit it to me :p
      Andie-Priscilla Xxxx

    • May 19, 2015 9:56 AM BST
    • Its not so much that Shirley is creative and my male self isn't. Its more that Shirley was like a canvas upon which I could create a feminine self which was the combination of makeup, clothes, mannerisms, vocalisation etc.

       

      I don't think it is uncommon for Transgendered individuals to go through initial phases of splitting themselves into two very unique and almost opposite selves but I could be wrong.

    • May 19, 2015 3:22 AM BST
    • you mention that"This perhaps had something to do with Shirley being a bit of a creative and artistic outlet and possibly the personification of her has more to do with female impersonation.

      'My other self is also very artisic,and creative

      MY step sis does really like michelle but she does call on here when she does need help with girlls things  like braiding hair and decorating

      I used to think it was mainly the cloths at times  at lease i thought I was just a crossdresser .and was doing it to,get my jollies.

        But Later i found that it wasnt the cloths after several times having them   donned all day .SO  i found out i was the same with or with out the female attire .  Cause i keept going in and out of male .female modes on a daily basis

       that whenafter several sessions  the theapist found out i had multipile peroanalities and this what cause the gender shifts Cause one was male  and one was female

       

       

    • May 18, 2015 12:48 PM BST
    • Back when I started my journey things were very different and I started with a heavy focus on the clothes and accessories (had my ears peirced etc and I haven't worn a *male* piece of jewellery for a very long time) but at the time the persona's of my male self and the one that emerged when I was dressed were very different. This perhaps had something to do with Shirley being a bit of a creative and artistic outlet and possibly the personification of her has more to do with female impersonation.

       

      But things changed and as my hair grew longer the clothes were not always the catalyst. In fact I can quite vividly remember my partner commenting one day as I took my hair out of a pony tail and let it flow, shook it out and she clearly said "Shirls is here now isn't she!" and yes she was.

       

      Anyway, I think what was essentially a pretty severe personality split is slowly joining together and my approaches to various things aren't so specific and dictated by y current presentation. Possibly this also comes as a realisation that feminity isn't about clothes and what you're wearing or haviing your hair out etc (although these can certainly help in terms of the external appearances). Its becoming an interesting time that isn't so dictated by the opportunities I have to dress (possibly due to the fact that I haven't had the time or the place to do so is also a factor here).

    • May 9, 2015 6:27 PM BST
    • GRS but I suppose cosmetic in general...

      Surgery itself doesn't bother me so uch, I've had two investigative brain surgeries (for attempting to diagnose why I am Deafblind).

    • May 9, 2015 6:16 PM BST
    • when you mention surgery what are you referancing too?

      are you taslking of surery in general or SRS /GRS type of surgeries

        Me i be afraid of any surgeries  cause im a big sissy  .caus i can stand the sight of blood. Any blood and especialy mine

    • May 9, 2015 12:53 PM BST
    • Was thinking (which is always dangerous :) )....

       

      I think if I underwent surgery I'd never quite be able to get past an underlying feeling that it was somehow superficial (in my own mind). I guess I wouldn't just want the external view in line but the whole works.

    • January 14, 2015 11:09 PM GMT
    • well here i am again.After several conversations with my self and my therapist  i starting to have doubts

       yes she says i have a female in my head and .what i call a soul.

      But now im really having doubts about transitioning.

      This mainly be cause of my observations i have had.

      Why change? 

      1.

      I see that my step sis gets cheated on, Lie to on a common note . but he denys do ing so even with evidence brought foward by others

      2. she can say some thing to him about some thing and he dis miisses it  ,but if a guy says it  its gossple even thought it was the exact same thing she said

      3 .eventough my sis is sick (heart trouble) he exspecects the housr to be spotless and all his muddy ckloths clean

      (works in a mine)   

      4. sis,es desires are ignored whan ask to go do some thing she though that would be good  for them,but NO .way

      now if there was some thing he wanted to do   ...there he .goes t... Damn straight

          .

       

      MY family

       

      1`.My own Mom was verbally abused by my step father,

      2. mom was denided simple request to buy cloths for us kids .hand me downs were common at the house.

      i have seen mom mend her nylons be cause she was NOT allowed to buy new ones

      3.mom desires was ignored whan ask to go do some thing she though that would be good  for them,but NO ...

      now if there was some thing he want to do   .another damn straight goes here.

       

      Now can you see where i have doubts about transisitioning

      but still ther that women insid eof me that want to get out