It was a long time ago. Trannyweb was what this online... moreIt was a long time ago. Trannyweb was what this online community was originally called. We had to change the name because the word ‘tranny’ became increasingly toxic and we had to change our rickety old software because the developers would no longer support it.
I vaguely remember we had asked the existing members to come up with a new name and Gender Society won. I think a lot of our members at the time wanted us to distance our community from the other cattle market sites out there so we needed to sound more respectable.Trannyweb was a busy and vibrant community though (started in 1999) with lots of people online at any one time. The forums were the jewel in the crown as you can see from the huge number of threads and forum posts (which by the way, are still available today).
The transition to The Gender Society took place in 2011. Unfortunately, a lot of the long-time regulars who used to be permanently logged in, didn’t like the change... less
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Gender variant (trans or transgender) people are relatively rarely seen in GP surgeries. Many GPs say that they lack the knowledge to treat those experiencinggender variant conditions and, consequently, they are not confident to do so.The first part of this publication provides an overview of care for trans people that is particularly applicable to GPs. Hormone therapy is central to transgender primarycare, and issues such as assessment and diagnosis are also relevant to general practice. These topics are discussed in greater detail in Annexes C and D. Clinical care for gender variant people should be provided within a framework of good practice that emphasises patient autonomy, allows for the wide variety of needs among trans people and is flexible in its clinical responses to those needs. It should also take account... less
Christine your information I don't think ever goes unnoticed, I... moreChristine your information I don't think ever goes unnoticed, I have always enjoyed your articles, very informative and thought provoking.
I just wished you were in the states to give such accurate content, but then under this current administration and political conflict I think you might find it quite egregious,
There was a time in the states when we were moving in a very positive direction, sadly we have faltered and at best stagnated our trans direction.
Huggs Tammy
I think I joined about 2004-2005, Organised themed chat... moreI think I joined about 2004-2005, Organised themed chat parties, lot of fun, about 2007 I was made head of forums, made a lot of amusing and factual posts even some controversial ones, many taken out of context, but always attracted attention and responses if some were very negative. When Trannyweb became the Gender society I gathered a few people to become site moderators lovely helpful team, keeping the site clear of trolls, keeping the home page clear of sleaze and wiping out literally 1000's of spams. Shame that when I stepped back from heading up that team due to studying and work I was unable to devote as much attention as the site needed many of the site and forum mods just seemed to vanish, lose interest. I will always remember some advice Katie gave mewhen in the early days of being a mod, I was verbally abused, it upset me and I threatened to leave,Katie said if someone on your land line gives you grief, do you cut your phone off. Of course... less
What effect does female hormone therapy have on a male, and how... moreWhat effect does female hormone therapy have on a male, and how soon?
The longer after puberty hormone therapy is started, the less effective it is--but not a linear scale, e.g., results are considerably more dramatic in an 18 year old than a 28 year old, but results are not on the average dramatically different between a 38 year old and a 48 year old.
The following effects have been observed in varying degrees--anywhere from little to moderate--with extended treatment. With effective and continuous dosages, most of the changes that a particular body is genetically prone to start within 2 to 4 months, will start leveling off somewhat within 2 years, and be mostly done within 5 years. The leveling may take longer if the testes are not removed. High levels of estrogen will cause faster development up to a point, but not better results in the long term than moderate levels of estrogen..
Fertility decreases. Sperm count drops rapidly. Sometimes it returns to almost normal if hormonal treatment is... less
If you've taken the time to tuck,shave all over,use makeup and if you have a good female hairstyle or wig and clothes with prosthetics,plus other touches like pierced ears,and... moreIf you've taken the time to tuck,shave all over,use makeup and if you have a good female hairstyle or wig and clothes with prosthetics,plus other touches like pierced ears,and there are tutorials on female gait,speech and gestures,you might find that people aren't that inquisitive or curious. If you're duded up as a woman they'll assume you are! There might be 1 or 2 people who read you,but those people usually have enough sense not to say anything because it could cause a big fracas and nobody wants that. Maybe this sounds strange but guys in drag or shall we say "TVs" may possibly be the next coming big thing. Entertaining at Suburban Parties and special ocaisions! less
How many of you ladies have the problem of being unable to cross your legs, or even keep your legs together in a lady like fashion because you have a male pelvis. My legs splay... moreHow many of you ladies have the problem of being unable to cross your legs, or even keep your legs together in a lady like fashion because you have a male pelvis. My legs splay out like a new-born calf. Is there such a thing as pelvic feminization surgery, where an orthopedic surgeon realigns your legs to a feminine angle?
Warm up: I discovered that I pass very well, including my rather large tummy, looking almost pregnent.
Funny part: I was walking the other day and gentleman comes up to me... moreWarm up: I discovered that I pass very well, including my rather large tummy, looking almost pregnent.
Funny part: I was walking the other day and gentleman comes up to me and asks me if I'm having a boy or a girl? Commented back that I don't know yet, with a huge blushing smile
Hi everyone. I am working to find my true female voice. I have seen a number of courses on the internet. The one that has gotten my attention was... moreHi everyone. I am working to find my true female voice. I have seen a number of courses on the internet. The one that has gotten my attention was advertised on GS. It is the 30 Day Crash course by Kathe Perez. I am curious if anyone has used this course, and how it has worked for you? Also, if you have not used this course, have you used another, and were you satisfied with the results.
Early on in my transition, my biggest mentors, Traci O'Gara and Christine Shye, said the biggest factor in passing is confidence. And how true this turns out to be. As it says in... moreEarly on in my transition, my biggest mentors, Traci O'Gara and Christine Shye, said the biggest factor in passing is confidence. And how true this turns out to be. As it says in the headline to this forum, so many other factors come into play. Even when you have mastered makeup, hair, style, and subtle gestures that people instinctively make their split-second decision on, you are left with your voice. This is probably one of the biggest stumbling blocks to successful passing. But, fear not! Even though I've worked on my voice, without a voice coach, I can't afford everything(!), I find that even though I am always called "sir" on the phone, in public that is not the case. People have usually already made up their mind, during that split-second unconscious decision, whether you are male or female. So when I speak, using a sing-song string of words, using a lot of inflection, especially at the end of my sentence, my deeper voice is dismissed as just that, a deeper voice. Never has a cisgender female... less
Trying not to be arrested.
Trying not to be trespassed/banned from various public... morePassing?
Trying not to be arrested.
Trying not to be trespassed/banned from various public places.
Trying not to be civilly committed to a mental hospital.
Trying to get customer service which other people take for granted.
Doing without medical care.
Doing without legal assistance.
Doing without any form of lawful self-defense.
Doing without any effective protection of the law.
Who's passing here? Certainly not the KKK / Neo-Nazi / Dixie Democrat / Arch-conservative Republican crowd.
I have a trams co-worker who told me she got two "thank you sir" comments from customers in a retail store. Does anyone have a good come-back reply that is not offensive ( she... moreI have a trams co-worker who told me she got two "thank you sir" comments from customers in a retail store. Does anyone have a good come-back reply that is not offensive ( she could lose her job) but gets the point across you don't appreciate their kind of humiliation?
Robin
There is a website called photofeeler.com that takes any photo you post there and has other members rating it on various items. The good thing about it is that no names, e-mails,... moreThere is a website called photofeeler.com that takes any photo you post there and has other members rating it on various items. The good thing about it is that no names, e-mails, sexuality, or anything is tied to the photo. It's a great way to see how others respond to your image without the fear of being clocked. Of course, you have to register and rate other people's pictures to get them to rate yours, but that is a small price to pay.
I put up a picture of me enfemme from years ago. I was rated as confident, but not very fun. :-( I have work to do.... less
As I get closer to going out in public, one thing scares me. THE PURSE. As a guy, I put what I need (money, ID, keys, etc.) in my pockets. Girls put these things and more in their... moreAs I get closer to going out in public, one thing scares me. THE PURSE. As a guy, I put what I need (money, ID, keys, etc.) in my pockets. Girls put these things and more in their purses. That is scary, having everything you need to function in a bag you carry. Now I know why women are afraid of purse snatchers.
Have any of you had a phobia about purses, and how did you get over it?
No need to fret about your voices, ladies! I'm sure you all sound great. All women from all walks of life can have deeper voices. Including myself. When I went through... moreNo need to fret about your voices, ladies! I'm sure you all sound great. All women from all walks of life can have deeper voices. Including myself. When I went through puberty, I remember my voice cracking for a while, then it sounded deeper. All people go through voice changes to varying degrees. And some genetic women have higher levels of testosterone since birth and puberty (myself included), creating deeper voices than the typical, high-pitched female or ultra-femme female. Personally--not just because I have one--I think lower-pitched voices in women are sexier, connotes a higher level of intelligence, and is more tolerable to the human ear (a high-pitched voice can get annoying and grating).
Last June I went to my grandfather's funeral (he lived to 93!) and my brother (the middle child; I have two older brothers) who I hadn't seen in a long time, one of the first things he said to me was that my voice sounded deeper. I felt a little self-conscious, so I blurted out, yours sounds... less
Ok, the last retail job I had, and still have, nobody questions my gender as female. Now I just started a new retail job, at a store much like Saks off Fifth. There is one... moreOk, the last retail job I had, and still have, nobody questions my gender as female. Now I just started a new retail job, at a store much like Saks off Fifth. There is one cross-dresser that works there. When I spoke at orientation, his head whipped around (he was seated in front of me) and he looked at my hands! Ok, so, no biggie. But when we got to the store, he is constant companion to me; sits with me at lunch, break, at group meetings in store, you get the idea. Now I notice a woman I was friendly with glaring at me, with, guess who, at my side. Then today, another woman, who is very pleasant, referred to me as "him" and "he" right in front of me to one of the managers! My "appendage" is 6' tall and husky. Lots of makeup and RED lipstick. I think with him right next to me, I stand out as well. I have to tell my co-worker she is using the wrong pronouns, but where does the conversation go from there? Hmmm. Nowhere, that where! less
During the entire time I have been cross dressing I have never had a properly fitted dress or skirt nor the correct makeup, clothes accessories et c etc. Much of the issue has... moreDuring the entire time I have been cross dressing I have never had a properly fitted dress or skirt nor the correct makeup, clothes accessories et c etc. Much of the issue has been access to the right sizes of any shoes or clothes as they tended to be borrowed or bought in "commando style" with no consideration for proper fit and style.
So as I have mentioned I don't work and live on a fairly low income. As a result of an insurance payout I now find myself in a position to do a number of things I have never had the opportunity to do.
I have found a service that will give me a professional make over, custom photo's and supply a selection of clothing and any other needs I may have for a 3.5 hour session. This is a professional makeup artist who has an extensive knowledge and has worked closely with trans people before. So far her dealings have been very professional and friendly.
This may be the best opportunity I have to see just how "passable" (I know, I know) I could be... less
I've been out and about in several environments in Australia from Oxford Street, Darlinghurst in Sydney (where the Mardi Gras Parade walks) to the bush out in the Northern... moreI've been out and about in several environments in Australia from Oxford Street, Darlinghurst in Sydney (where the Mardi Gras Parade walks) to the bush out in the Northern Territory where things are very much still conservative.
In all my experiences I've found two fairly common factors and they are not the clothes you are wearing, the make-up or how feminine/masculine you look but are :
1. The confidence and comfort you exude in the person you are presenting as.
2. A smile and a welcoming/warm expression (sometimes I've seen CD;s walking around with a stern/challenging look in their eyes like they've got something to prove and everyone is going to challenge them). less
I've been so frustrated with my voice for so long and felt the need to share about this!I've just started seeing a Speech Pathologist who schedules sessions over Skype which is... moreI've been so frustrated with my voice for so long and felt the need to share about this!I've just started seeing a Speech Pathologist who schedules sessions over Skype which is really convenient for me.I've noticed my voice has started to change after just a few sessions. This is really exciting for me!On another note, what are the best resources people have found? I still want to keep on top of everything I can. Maybe after seeing someone I will understand all the info out there a bit more.
So I'm just noticing more often than not even dressed up as a guy with a female jacket on and a short hair - Ive been seeing men opening or holding the door for me. It's always... moreSo I'm just noticing more often than not even dressed up as a guy with a female jacket on and a short hair - Ive been seeing men opening or holding the door for me. It's always nice to be acknowledged as a woman and it feels good deep inside knowing that we are doing the right thing for us.
